Does anyone else feel like they NEED an oh?

[Laura--x]

Ive only been single for 2 and a half months, but gosh, i feel so lonely its unreal

At first i loved being on my own, but i think it was just because i had wanted to get out of the relationship for so long that i was just so glad it had finally happened. But now, im just sick of going to bed on my own every night, and waking up on my own, and just being on my own all the time

Theres this guy im kind of 'seeing', we've only met a few times and text a few times, but i feel like im coming on too strong? I like him, but i know for a fact its nothing more than that, yet i get so depressed and down when i dont talk to him for a day, or if he isnt the first one to speak to me online i get upset? wtf is all that about?

Ugh i sound like a right loser, i just wish i was settled

 

[suzanne108]

Aww hun I think its normal to feel that way.

Personally I feel like I will never want a man ever again...but I imagine that will change once my LO is here and we're settled.

Off the subject but I love your signature....your daughter is so cute and I secretly love waybuloo haha....I make my nephew watch it just cos I think they're cute!! xx

 

[Laura--x]

I was like that at first, i said i just want it to be me and Maisie from now on, but now its just so lonely When she goes to bed i miss not having someone to cuddle up too or go out with, you know??

Haha, Thanks . I love waybuloo haha x

 

[suzanne108]

I can imagine it gets a bit lonely I sometimes wonder how I'm ever going to meet anyone when the time comes.

Why don't you try internet dating??!!

Sometimes I think its nice just to have someone to text and give you compliments...without the hassle of a fully blown relationship! Maybe thats just me?!

 

[Laura--x]

Ive never been interested in that tbh.

Well i am seeing this lad whos an old friend from school, we've met up a few times and text each other and stuff, but my problem is, to start with all i wanted was someone to have a bit of fun with if you know what i mean? Someone to chill out with, but now the more i see/speak to him the more i like him and the more i want if you understand?

 

[Ash_P]

It will get easier hun. I am single nearly 6 months, and its only taken to now for me to get used to going to bed on my own. Dont get me wrong, I miss the cuddles, the kisses, even just the conversation, making dinner for 2 etc. But I know that I dont "need" a man to be happy. I keep telling myself that once Im happy within myself, settled, and content on my own, that is when Ill meet someone special. Everyone says that it happens when u least expect it.

Try and find something to keep u occupied. Get a project, like decorate a room or something. Keep u busy for another wee while hun. It will ease in time, the loniless wont bother u as much, and ul actually start to enjoy the peace and quiet.

We are all here when u get lonely. We cant hug or kiss u, but we are here to listen. Even if u want a wee text buddy, so if ur lonely at nites u can text me, I dont mind. Im up to all hours getting the tummy kicked off me lol x

 

[suzanne108]

Yeah....just see how things go with him then

 

[Laura--x]

It will get easier hun. I am single nearly 6 months, and its only taken to now for me to get used to going to bed on my own. Dont get me wrong, I miss the cuddles, the kisses, even just the conversation, making dinner for 2 etc. But I know that I dont "need" a man to be happy. I keep telling myself that once Im happy within myself, settled, and content on my own, that is when Ill meet someone special. Everyone says that it happens when u least expect it.

Try and find something to keep u occupied. Get a project, like decorate a room or something. Keep u busy for another wee while hun. It will ease in time, the loniless wont bother u as much, and ul actually start to enjoy the peace and quiet.

We are all here when u get lonely. We cant hug or kiss u, but we are here to listen. Even if u want a wee text buddy, so if ur lonely at nites u can text me, I dont mind. Im up to all hours getting the tummy kicked off me lol x

Thats lovely of you thankyou hunn xx

 

[Laura--x]

Yeah....just see how things go with him then

I dont think anything will happen tbh, i dont think hes talking to me because i went out the one night and was having a joke and a firt with this other lad ( who he knows ) so hes not too happy atm lol!

 

[suzanne108]

Yeah....just see how things go with him then

I dont think anything will happen tbh, i dont think hes talking to me because i went out the one night and was having a joke and a firt with this other lad ( who he knows ) so hes not too happy atm lol!

Lol....he'll come round! He must like you anyway if he's getting jealous

 

[Ash_P]

It will get easier hun. I am single nearly 6 months, and its only taken to now for me to get used to going to bed on my own. Dont get me wrong, I miss the cuddles, the kisses, even just the conversation, making dinner for 2 etc. But I know that I dont "need" a man to be happy. I keep telling myself that once Im happy within myself, settled, and content on my own, that is when Ill meet someone special. Everyone says that it happens when u least expect it.

Try and find something to keep u occupied. Get a project, like decorate a room or something. Keep u busy for another wee while hun. It will ease in time, the loniless wont bother u as much, and ul actually start to enjoy the peace and quiet.

We are all here when u get lonely. We cant hug or kiss u, but we are here to listen. Even if u want a wee text buddy, so if ur lonely at nites u can text me, I dont mind. Im up to all hours getting the tummy kicked off me lol x

Thats lovely of you thankyou hunn xx

no probs hun, just pm me anytime x

 

[Waiting4Bump]

I'm exactly the same. I hate being on my own. I hate having nobody texting me to tell me they love me etc just the little things that you get in a relationship.
I've just started seeing someone new, and I can't help thinking that I'm coming on a bit strong as well.
So I know exactly how you feel Remember if you need anyone to talk to, we are always here for you, & if you ever want to PM me then feel free! xx

 

[Laura--x]

Well i dont think he wants anything to do with me anymore I text him last night saying if you want me to back off just tell me dont ignore me, he text back sayin he wasnt ignoring me and i said well what do u want to happen i need to know and all he said was he dont know... :/

So now im a bit confused and just feeling like crap really. I know it wernt nothing serious but i did like him and i did want it to go a bit further than it did, but oh well. Ive told him just to get in contact with me when he wants but untill then ill just leave him alone..

Urgh

 

[DizzyMoo]

I was single for 4 yrs !! From being pregnant with josh until he was 3 yrs old, I hated being on my own really did , cried so many times but yet i couldn't go out on nights out to look for anyone, internet dating is so full of creeps & i get pissed off having to repeat myself & get questioned of men about things, So i gave up ever thinking i would meet someone. Then i met fob & was just awe struck big time, he was gorg, made me laugh, was perfect with josh & josh loved him, the family all loved him, my friends all fancied him, he did alsorts for me & i really couldn't believe my luck ... then 2 wks after our bfp he buggered off with someone else!!
I'm still not over him 100% but it does help how he never speaks anymore.

I'm now at that stage where i dont EVER want another relationship, I wont put myself in that position or my kids, I truly dont believe there is any men out there who are not twats & are single. Dont get me wrong i really hate being single, I really miss having someone for me, someone to share the shit with, someone to just cuddle up to but i would never put myself in that position again.
I've been split from fob 7mth now, its back to being just me & josh & then bump when he comes this week. Ive had times since where ive been asked out or someone has shown interest & im such a cow its unreal lol

 

[sweetlullaby]

I do feel a wee bit lonely sometimes but to be honest im really glad of the freedom at the minute! I suppose that could change when LO's here but until then im very happy without one around!

 

[lou_w34]

Sometimes yes, sometimes no....

I think its the cuddles and kisses i miss the most, and at night time i always feel really lonely as i just wish i had someone to snuggle up too.

But too be honest the thought of being with someone else terrifies me, i think ive kinda tarred all men with the same brush nows after my ex.

If i meet someone and its meant to be i guess it will happen

 

[MissE007]

I was single for 4 yrs !! From being pregnant with josh until he was 3 yrs old, I hated being on my own really did , cried so many times but yet i couldn't go out on nights out to look for anyone, internet dating is so full of creeps & i get pissed off having to repeat myself & get questioned of men about things, So i gave up ever thinking i would meet someone. Then i met fob & was just awe struck big time, he was gorg, made me laugh, was perfect with josh & josh loved him, the family all loved him, my friends all fancied him, he did alsorts for me & i really couldn't believe my luck ... then 2 wks after our bfp he buggered off with someone else!!
I'm still not over him 100% but it does help how he never speaks anymore.

I'm now at that stage where i dont EVER want another relationship, I wont put myself in that position or my kids, I truly dont believe there is any men out there who are not twats & are single. Dont get me wrong i really hate being single, I really miss having someone for me, someone to share the shit with, someone to just cuddle up to but i would never put myself in that position again.
I've been split from fob 7mth now, its back to being just me & josh & then bump when he comes this week. Ive had times since where ive been asked out or someone has shown interest & im such a cow its unreal lol

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[AppleBlossom]

I was single for 9 months until I finally got with my new OH. There were times when I really wanted to just be with someone mainly because I wanted someone to be there for Grace so she had a family at home and not just me. But I soon realised that I liked it just being the two of us because I didn't have to share it is normal though hun