DH and I don't fight a ton even now. I generally realize I'm mad about things that aren't new about his personality and it's probably my hormones making it worse so I don't say anything.
Like all I do is clean up after him. He lives his life like a stream of consciousness. Make a frozen pizza? Leave everything you used to make the frozen pizza including the empty box right where you left it. Dirty laundry? Let's toss it next to the hamper. Mow the lawn? Eh..let's wait until it looks like a rain forest out there. I don't have the energy with this pregnancy to follow him around and pick up after him or do all the chores he doesn't, so things just don't get done sometimes. It makes me mad, but not enough to get into a fight.
I have to save my energy to fight with people at work. I don't have anything left at 6pm over empty boxes, water bottles, and socks on the couch. Sigh.
Like all I do is clean up after him. He lives his life like a stream of consciousness. Make a frozen pizza? Leave everything you used to make the frozen pizza including the empty box right where you left it. Dirty laundry? Let's toss it next to the hamper. Mow the lawn? Eh..let's wait until it looks like a rain forest out there. I don't have the energy with this pregnancy to follow him around and pick up after him or do all the chores he doesn't, so things just don't get done sometimes. It makes me mad, but not enough to get into a fight.
I have to save my energy to fight with people at work. I don't have anything left at 6pm over empty boxes, water bottles, and socks on the couch. Sigh.
