Does anyone else....

[lou_w34]

...ever feel like there weekends (or weeks in general) are soooo boring and lonely

My friends who are still in the area work all day, and my uni friends are all over the place so i feel so lonely They are all there for me, and i know they love and care for me loads, i just wish they closer to me.

Sometimes i just wish that i was with someone, who could look after me and my daughter and do nice things for us, then i feel silly for needing someone to rely on so much. Romantic films are a killer these days lol

I feel all i do is wait for my mum to get home from work so i can have someone to talk too, and at weekends i just follow her around doing whatever she does.

Anyone else?

 

[purpledahlia]

you just described my life

 

[lou_w34]

Good! Well not that i want you too feel that way... just as long as its not just me on my own heehee

 

[purpledahlia]

haha, yeah im constantly bored. i spend my time cleaning just to pass the time. today i washed the dishes by hand even altho we have a new dishwasher.... im sad. I think i might do a course!

 

[lou_w34]

I was thinking of doing a course, but i know the colleges down here charge you if your over 19, and i cant afford that right now! Tis rubbish! And i get the cleaning thing, my room has never been so spotless lol

 

[Lexi's Mummy]

i could have written that myself.... my mum is my best friend and i love her to bits. and although i love my life most of the time, im sat her now with a glass of wine thinkin surely there's more to life than this
ive no real friends anymore and the 2 i do have that i consider my best friends dont live in the same town as me

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah i find a lot of all my close friends live 2 hours away in aberdeen, some still in london, some in EDin and glas, only about 4 or 5 round here. And i have no money to do anything with them as they all have jobs and go out n do stuff that requires a bank balance!!!

 

[KaeRit21]

you could just have described my life...only ive no real close friends any more as the miniute i found out i was pregnant, they turned there backs, and ive never heard from them, not through lack of trying from me.

if it wasnt for my mum i dont know what id do....im currently sitting in an empty house watching csi new york and i could cry...i really honestly just feel so lonely these days

xxx

 

[purpledahlia]

why CSI... get Xfactor on girl!!!
i know, we may feel lonely now but as soon as LO is here i plan on getting out and doing as much as i can.. classes.. park.. swimming..etc.. meeting mummies is top on my adgenda!!

 

[KaeRit21]

yea i know how you feel, hoping lo is going to help me make some new friends

xxx

 

[tinkabells]

I know what ya mean, but i made friends from my nct class, and also found old friends who had babies i got intouch with.
But if your on facebook, put in search like mums in your area, i've joined a couple of groups on facebook and made friends that way, but also go along to the coffee mornings if there are any in your area, i havent been to any with my LO yet, as had bit of rough time since having her, but thats what i would surjest
also if theres ppl from your area on here as well xxx

 

[woadie]

Don't worry, between home and work (I teach in a school) my evenings and weekends are filled with chores and noone... my mum died suddenly from a heart attack over 2 and a half years ago and Dad long gone (cancer) so it's just me here... Mum was my best friend so I miss her more than ever before now I'm pregnant.

You're not alone in rattling around on your own, I'm just thankful I have a job but I am dreading what it will be like when I am off work and caring for little one because apart from the midwife and maybe the very odd visit from friends, that's when it will get tough for me....

 

[lou_w34]

Im looking forward to LO getting here too, she'll be like my reason for going to certain classes to make friends, cos i know without her id never be able to set foot in a room with people i dont know on my own!

The lonliness is a killer, I just keep hoping it will get better when shes here, im sure my mums sick of having to entertain me every day lol

 

[tinkabells]

Im looking forward to LO getting here too, she'll be like my reason for going to certain classes to make friends, cos i know without her id never be able to set foot in a room with people i dont know on my own!

The lonliness is a killer, I just keep hoping it will get better when shes here, im sure my mums sick of having to entertain me every day lol

Yeah it helps having them, makes ya feel bit better about not knowing anyone xxx

 

[babybaillie]

Yeah i no exactly how u feel. Especially when my daughter goes to her dads every 2nd weekend. I moved to this area when we were together. and never made the effort to meet friends, and gradually fell away from my own friends as we lived so far away. Now i feel so alone. At least my ex has said he will not take the baby im carrying as hes not interested, so i cling to the fact i will nbever b on my own when she arrives. But its not the same as adult company at times.