susanneb1984
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Hi there,
I'm a new poster to this part of the board, but am finding it harder and harder to cope on my own, so thought I'd come here and see if anyone else is going through this.
My DD1 is 7 years old, she's very clever, she's currently working at a school age of 9-10 years, plus doing some SEN level high school work! I'm a Teaching Assistant, so bring lots of high school resources home.
Anyway, she's always had 'needs'. I was 18 weeks pregnant when we found out she had a dilated kidney. This sorted itself out, but was just the start of things to come. She was born at 33+6, weighing 5lb 8oz. She was sent to special care because her blood sugar levels weren't settled. It was in special care that we found out she had 4 holes in her heart. She needed to be tube fed for a week because she got very tired sucking. We soon sorted that, and found ways to help her feed. She was discharged at 10 days old, but we've had regular consultations with the cardiologist. She now has 2 small holes in her heart. However, she also has 'hypersensitive blood vessels' is what the cardiologist called it, she goes blue/purple for no reason, anything from a few minutes to an hr at a time, but they seem unconcerned.
When she was 6 weeks, she was diagnosed with eczema, and at 3 months was given an inhaler (I've never used it! But apparently the fact she has one makes her asthmatic!?) At 11 months old, was when the huge problems started.
To cut a long story short, we've finally had a diagnosis on her 'hip' problems! She has a twisted pelvis and a curve in her spine, and they are concerned about her brain. We were told by an osteopath that her brain fluid wasn't flowing right and the two sides of her skull don't match and he'd like her sent for a brain scan
Does anyone else have a child who is fine mentally but their body lets them down? How do you deal with it? She's now at the point where if her legs are bad, she struggles to move. The park is a no go anymore because she is in agony all night after playing. How do you explain to a 7 year old that they need to rest?
I feel so bad for her, I'm 26 and have osteoarthritis in my spine, so I can relate to her pain, but at 7 years old, she shouldn't be worrying about getting a bad back
I'm a new poster to this part of the board, but am finding it harder and harder to cope on my own, so thought I'd come here and see if anyone else is going through this.
My DD1 is 7 years old, she's very clever, she's currently working at a school age of 9-10 years, plus doing some SEN level high school work! I'm a Teaching Assistant, so bring lots of high school resources home.
Anyway, she's always had 'needs'. I was 18 weeks pregnant when we found out she had a dilated kidney. This sorted itself out, but was just the start of things to come. She was born at 33+6, weighing 5lb 8oz. She was sent to special care because her blood sugar levels weren't settled. It was in special care that we found out she had 4 holes in her heart. She needed to be tube fed for a week because she got very tired sucking. We soon sorted that, and found ways to help her feed. She was discharged at 10 days old, but we've had regular consultations with the cardiologist. She now has 2 small holes in her heart. However, she also has 'hypersensitive blood vessels' is what the cardiologist called it, she goes blue/purple for no reason, anything from a few minutes to an hr at a time, but they seem unconcerned.
When she was 6 weeks, she was diagnosed with eczema, and at 3 months was given an inhaler (I've never used it! But apparently the fact she has one makes her asthmatic!?) At 11 months old, was when the huge problems started.
To cut a long story short, we've finally had a diagnosis on her 'hip' problems! She has a twisted pelvis and a curve in her spine, and they are concerned about her brain. We were told by an osteopath that her brain fluid wasn't flowing right and the two sides of her skull don't match and he'd like her sent for a brain scan
Does anyone else have a child who is fine mentally but their body lets them down? How do you deal with it? She's now at the point where if her legs are bad, she struggles to move. The park is a no go anymore because she is in agony all night after playing. How do you explain to a 7 year old that they need to rest?
I feel so bad for her, I'm 26 and have osteoarthritis in my spine, so I can relate to her pain, but at 7 years old, she shouldn't be worrying about getting a bad back