Does anyone here use a contact centre?

[Jennifurball]

Or have you?

The thought of seeing ex makes me sick to my stomach, I am more down now than I have ever been.

Will arranging a contact centre cause a war in court? I don't want it going to court because he has rights to take her when I know he isn't a fit dad. I am scared of losing her.

What is involved in it?

 

[stevon111]

must admit...this has came accoss my mind sometimes when i get hell from my ex GF ...would love to be away from my X for good but i just dont see it as a good thing for Faye it just wouldn't be a fair thing to do since shes around different people already.... its just 1 of those things you learn to cope with .....mind me and my X dont talk through the week and its only really me picking Faye up on the weekends....i dont know what it is like with you and ur X

 

[ravenmel]

You can google and contact local contact centres in your area but they'll ask you who's going to pay for it? It's not always a free service. If it's supervised visits you're after you can get this granted through court with good reason (they'll decide) and your ex will have to pay for it.

Sometimes it is better that parents have no communication and contact. it's a shame but sometimes a must. Try CAB they're very good.

 

[pinkbump1]

hi ya, I have thought of the same as well with a contact centre as my ex is stressing the hell out of me and I am 11 weeks pregnant as well and I have belle who is nearly 11 months (both are his) but I am beginning to rise above him and his emotionally draining ways and I tell him when belle due her bottle and food etc and thats it. I say good bye to Belle and when I get in i let it all out and cry for the whole time he has her I feel really let down and hurt but there is no way would i ever let that be known to him, i wouldnt give him the satisfaction. I tried to sort it all out when we split up and he told me to only talk to him about belle so i do. I know in time it will get easier and for that I cant wait. I wont let Belle hear the bitterness its not fair on her. One day I hope to close my front door and not cry when he goes but its hard and its all a let down and my emotions are all over the place but he has had my feeling for just over 4 years he isnt going to see an ounce of them now even if i have to do it all behind closed doors that is what I will do. Keep strong and brave hun x