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Dont belong in TCC

Omi

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My problem is that i feel like i dont feel like i belong anywhere...

Im obviously fertile, ive had to pg's in the last year and i have none of the crosses most of you have to bear! Yet, i know i dont belong in TTC. Yes, im having testing for my 2 mc's and have been told most likely i have a clotting problem, but i wont know for sure until 20th Feb. And if positive i will have to go on some medication to give birth (if im that lucky- fingers crossed, although we'll be near to tcc for 2 years this summer) But i dont feel have anywhere near having the obstacles many of you have...

God save me, but im having to restraint myself, i cannot bear the incessant newbie questions in TCC! Dont these people have Google? I guess i just feel caught between a rock and a hard place. Im not looking for sympathy, cause i know im luckier than some....but i dont know where to go...ive been doing this for so long... but the TTC forum is doing my head in...

Sorry for the rant..but most of my friends have either left ttc or found a home here and i feel i dont belong in either.. What to do?
 
sweetie you're welcome in here :hugs:

I've been pg 3 times and always in just a few cycles, but AF is unbelieveably irregular and I never manage to keep ahold of my pregancies. All in all I've been TTC for nearly 4 years (fuck!!! that long?!)
 
My problem is that i feel like i dont feel like i belong anywhere...

Im obviously fertile, ive had to pg's in the last year and i have none of the crosses most of you have to bear! Yet, i know i dont belong in TTC. Yes, im having testing for my 2 mc's and have been told most likely i have a clotting problem, but i wont know for sure until 20th Feb. And if positive i will have to go on some medication to give birth (if im that lucky- fingers crossed, although we'll be near to tcc for 2 years this summer) But i dont feel have anywhere near having the obstacles many of you have...

God save me, but im having to restraint myself, i cannot bear the incessant newbie questions in TCC! Dont these people have Google? I guess i just feel caught between a rock and a hard place. Im not looking for sympathy, cause i know im luckier than some....but i dont know where to go...ive been doing this for so long... but the TTC forum is doing my head in...

Sorry for the rant..but most of my friends have either left ttc or found a home here and i feel i dont belong in either.. What to do?

Sorry for your losses.

I too am in a similar position. 3rd MC two weeks ago and going to see my consultant on the 11th Feb, so feel in limbo at the moment. Good luck on the 20th Feb hun.

Google statement :rofl: BRILLIANT

:hugs:
 
i think you belong with me close to my heart:)

Omi love so much Darling !:hugs: our road to have our baby is hard but we will together make it happen :hugs:

you belong here with me:hug:
 
Thanks, guys!

the reason the ttc forum is doing my head in..hmm ' am i pregnant?' I mean, seriously, is there any way i could tell? Did i ever post such a thing? Er, no. There seem to be a thousand new girls on there- not a problem. But the stupid questions? Naw. I was never that daft.

I dont mean to be un symphathetic but for the love of God!!!

I answer questions where i can, and i love too... but its gotten to the point where its like a convention for ttc challenged people..not in a good sense, we all have questions now and then...but for...dare i say it, morons. Its like a forum forum for 14 year olds..

Yeah, i know , i shall be burned on the stake shortly never to speak again...

Dont get me wrong, ask questions about ttc process, but some..OMG, i wanna bring out a chart and point out the reproductive system..did these guys not follow biology class?

Yep, so here comes the backlash, i know..but i firmly believe you have to figure some things out for your self. Am i wrong?
 
I'm in TTC as i've been trying for 2 and half years around about now, and sometimes i feel a bit distant in the TTC section and dont know anyone there now but then i also feel like i dont belong in LTTC as my TTc length is nothing compared to some people trying for much longer than myself. Hope you figure yourself out . good luck
 
Hey Omi,
We totally understand you. I don't go there myself...last time I did I was soooo sorry! So I stay away and just stick to here, where I think we all understand each other a little better!
:hug:
 
Omi I think you will get a lot more support in LTTC than in TTC. You have being trying for a long time now and have been through a lot with your mcs :hugs: Everyone on here has a different story and is very knowledgable, so its the best place to be sweetie.

T'elle, it might be time to admit there MAY be a problem and go and get some tests done. At about 2 years, I decided enough was enough and started the testing process and have just recenty been diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes. It aint ever gunna happen on it's own. Good luck with it all :hug:
 
I agree Omi, the questions in TTC are repetitive to say the least.... am i PG, CM questions etc.. they have all been asked before but I think it is just excitement on their parts. I avoid going in there now and stick to LTTC and my great cycle buddies.
 
You're reasons are the same as mine for not going into the TTC section anymore. Hope you feel more at home here :hugs:
 
Hey Omi, come and join me in here. I don't really belong anywhere either!

As far as I know both myself and DH are fertile (he has physcological problems that stops him ejeculating) and I don't think we have half the problems of some.

That said this feels the right place for me because everyone is so supportive and they are the only ones who really understand what it is like to be so desperate for a baby but for reasons out of your control that isn't going to happen like it does for most people.

For all those reasons that is why you'll find we do actually both belong in here. :hugs:
 
Welcome over chica :hugs:

I never felt like I fit into TTC, even at the beginning. as I felt I couldn't relate to everybodies 'normal' body functions or 'normal' cycles.

You don't have to feel like you don't belong anywhere, you can belong here :hugs: everyone is very nice.
 
Thanks, guys!

the reason the ttc forum is doing my head in..hmm ' am i pregnant?' I mean, seriously, is there any way i could tell? Did i ever post such a thing? Er, no. There seem to be a thousand new girls on there- not a problem. But the stupid questions? Naw. I was never that daft.

I dont mean to be un symphathetic but for the love of God!!!

I answer questions where i can, and i love too... but its gotten to the point where its like a convention for ttc challenged people..not in a good sense, we all have questions now and then...but for...dare i say it, morons. Its like a forum forum for 14 year olds..

Yeah, i know , i shall be burned on the stake shortly never to speak again...

Dont get me wrong, ask questions about ttc process, but some..OMG, i wanna bring out a chart and point out the reproductive system..did these guys not follow biology class?

Yep, so here comes the backlash, i know..but i firmly believe you have to figure some things out for your self. Am i wrong?

Amen! I have been ttc for 20 months now and I have done more research to where the doctors are asking me questions! :rofl: Just kidding, but you know where I am going here! I have had 3 mc's too and I feel like the ladies in here are extremely helpful and very supportive also very educated to the matters of ttc and the female reproductive system. I love the ladies in here and they are very nice. Good luck and I hope you get some answers later next month. :hug:
 
I haven't been into TTC for absolutely ages. I got bored very quickly with the same questions being asked over and over again - a lot of which are easily answered by googling. It's very difficult when you're struggling, to deal with new names coming and moving on, and still being stuck in the same rut.

You're more than welcome to join us - we all have our off days when we rant and rave, or moan, but generally we're all very nice friendly people - and generally we don't ask dumbassed questions...

xx
 
Omi ,
let me know if you want me to move your ttc journal into the Lttc section journal darling...
 
the reason the ttc forum is doing my head in..hmm ' am i pregnant?' I mean, seriously, is there any way i could tell? Did i ever post such a thing? Er, no. There seem to be a thousand new girls on there- not a problem. But the stupid questions? Naw. I was never that daft.

I dont mean to be un symphathetic but for the love of God!!!

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Dont get me wrong, ask questions about ttc process, but some..OMG, i wanna bring out a chart and point out the reproductive system..did these guys not follow biology class?


:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

Omi my love you are not bad or mean or evil or about to be burnt at the stake .. your normal and human and very welcome over to this sections where the questions asked tend to be a little more *cough* sensible :blush:

Come join us .... and move your journal over too ... that way I'll find it easier :rofl:
 

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