I know this sounds weird but I really don't see myself as a proper adult!
I have 2 children, 3 bed house and car, completed uni over 5 years ago and I still don't feel like a 'real' adult.
I see some of the other mums at toddlers groups and they just seem so much more like 'adults' although most of them are only a few years older than me.
Making Sunday dinners for their family, hosting Xmas, seeing their friends very rarely and if they do it's a couples kind of thing with their husbands etc
I'm still friends with people from school, go round to my mums and sit their like I'm a teenager expecting to be fed (although this is only once every 2 weeks) and would never think to cook for her!
What age did you feel like a proper adult adult. Maybe I need to grow up!!
Also edited to add the bit I find hard aswell is some of my friends still want to meet up fairly regularly and I feel Torn as don't have a valid excuse. Being a busy working mum with 2 kids and a lot of housework to do just doesn't seem to count. How do you become more of a family unit... I guess I should be lucky I have friends but it can be difficult
I have 2 children, 3 bed house and car, completed uni over 5 years ago and I still don't feel like a 'real' adult.
I see some of the other mums at toddlers groups and they just seem so much more like 'adults' although most of them are only a few years older than me.
Making Sunday dinners for their family, hosting Xmas, seeing their friends very rarely and if they do it's a couples kind of thing with their husbands etc
I'm still friends with people from school, go round to my mums and sit their like I'm a teenager expecting to be fed (although this is only once every 2 weeks) and would never think to cook for her!
What age did you feel like a proper adult adult. Maybe I need to grow up!!
Also edited to add the bit I find hard aswell is some of my friends still want to meet up fairly regularly and I feel Torn as don't have a valid excuse. Being a busy working mum with 2 kids and a lot of housework to do just doesn't seem to count. How do you become more of a family unit... I guess I should be lucky I have friends but it can be difficult