Sarah88
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I'm in a bit of a predicament and theres really nothing I can do about it...
I don't like Savannahs godmother anymore. This isn't some silly spat nor is she a new friend. She's actually a family friend; her mum is best friends with my mum so we've grown up together.
She moved in with me and my family (mum, dad etc) just before I gave birth last yr (sounds so weird saying that!), and she's really not who I thought she was... She's about 25 or so and still acts like a teenager. She goes out every thursday night with her friends clubbing, then either chucks a sickie or just comes home from work (she can spend all day at home an still get paid as she drives around for work.). Then she'll whinge and say she's never drinking/going out again.
She'll also fight with a few friends constantly, saying she's over them etc but then the next time they call and want to do something she's all good. This doesn't bother me, but these friends keep saying they'll do stuff and cancel at the last minute. Surely you'd learn your lesson and not bother anymore. And I have to sit here and listen to her whinge and bitch about it...
And just this past week she went away for NY's, while her mum drove 8hrs to come up and find her a house to buy. That is the main reason for her mum coming, she has spent the majority of the time searching the net and going to heaps of different real estates and looking through houses for her. She ended up coming home and not even coming out to say hi to her mum or us, just going straight overf to her new boyfriends.
Which brings me to another point... She is always skanking about, finding new 'loves of her life'. She'll spend every waking moment with him, staying over etc and then wonder why they start to distance themselves. No wonder they do that when you're so full on!
Just one of these wouldn't bother me, but living with her and seeing all these things have just opened my eyes. And it's not just me, my OH and dad also think this. Meanwhile my mum thinks the sun shines out her ass.
Savannah is not christened yet but it's not like I can just tell her she's not the godmum anymore, since I asked her when I was newly pregnant. I just wish I never lived with her and didn't know this side
Sorry for the rant, just need to get it out...
I don't like Savannahs godmother anymore. This isn't some silly spat nor is she a new friend. She's actually a family friend; her mum is best friends with my mum so we've grown up together.
She moved in with me and my family (mum, dad etc) just before I gave birth last yr (sounds so weird saying that!), and she's really not who I thought she was... She's about 25 or so and still acts like a teenager. She goes out every thursday night with her friends clubbing, then either chucks a sickie or just comes home from work (she can spend all day at home an still get paid as she drives around for work.). Then she'll whinge and say she's never drinking/going out again.
She'll also fight with a few friends constantly, saying she's over them etc but then the next time they call and want to do something she's all good. This doesn't bother me, but these friends keep saying they'll do stuff and cancel at the last minute. Surely you'd learn your lesson and not bother anymore. And I have to sit here and listen to her whinge and bitch about it...
And just this past week she went away for NY's, while her mum drove 8hrs to come up and find her a house to buy. That is the main reason for her mum coming, she has spent the majority of the time searching the net and going to heaps of different real estates and looking through houses for her. She ended up coming home and not even coming out to say hi to her mum or us, just going straight overf to her new boyfriends.
Which brings me to another point... She is always skanking about, finding new 'loves of her life'. She'll spend every waking moment with him, staying over etc and then wonder why they start to distance themselves. No wonder they do that when you're so full on!
Just one of these wouldn't bother me, but living with her and seeing all these things have just opened my eyes. And it's not just me, my OH and dad also think this. Meanwhile my mum thinks the sun shines out her ass.
Savannah is not christened yet but it's not like I can just tell her she's not the godmum anymore, since I asked her when I was newly pregnant. I just wish I never lived with her and didn't know this side
Sorry for the rant, just need to get it out...