Dont think this is in the right thread but i just wanted some advice ?

[Becyboo__x]

I dont want this all to sound bad and people to judge me i just wanted some advice as its all been doing my head in for awhile

Basically its about when i most likly would of concieved iv been on many websites calculators etc and i just get the same answers and they dont help me much. The dates are too close together i think for anyone to help me out and i wish i culd turn back time to not have made my self in this position..
but it happened now and i cant go back spose ill learn from my mistakes.

(Its about 2 people i sleept with and i obviously am stuck about everything i know the answer in the end will be DNA and thats what is being done when baby arrives but until then im a huge mess .)

If anyone is willing to talk to me about it all just comment back and ill private message you my dates and stuff see what you think.

Thanks x

 

[Lexi's Mummy]

no ones here to judge u hun, ill happily talk to u xx

 

[purpledahlia]

just post ur dates etc on here and we can look at it... Chances of guessing are never gonna be 100% tho, DNA is the only sure fire way.. but u know that and ur gonna do a test so should be fine! Just find a way not to think about it till then or it will drive u crazy x

 

[Becyboo__x]

Yep it is driving me crazy already and im such an idiot i shouldnt have got my self into this mess in first place :doh: but all i can do is get a DNA when babys here and from there itll be ok but its the waiting i was thinking about having one before babys born but i know its risky but apparently its really low risk but its also really expensive and i thought im not going to do that 1.Cause of the money 2.The little risk 3.After symtoms of the thing being put in your stomach to get fluid from around baby
shouldnt of even concidered that!!

Wel my dates are:

24th April
then
30th april

and my LMP was 19th april
and my due date is 22nd january (dont think that matters)

Also i found a calender that tells me when i would have been fertile etc and i made me think more that itll be on the 30th when it all happened not 24th as it was too early and sperm lasting 4 days would have lasted til low fertile not like 30th with high (if anyone understands that) but there stil proberley is a slight chance.

Heres the calender-
https://i651.photobucket.com/albums/uu238/becyboo91/ovulationcalculator.jpg

 

[Jkelmum]

How many days was your cycle ?

 

[surprisebaby]

ok going by your dates I am pretty certain, almost 100% that you conceived from sex you had on the 30th. Ovulation normally occurs on average day 14 of your monthly cycle, so on the 24th you would have been on day 6 (probably you just finished your period) and the 30th would make day 12 (very near ovulation time). Also from this infromation I would guess you were having a girl because it would be two days before ovulating. Hope that helps

 

[Jkelmum]

https://www.paternityangel.com/Preg_info_zone/DueDateCalc/Calc266.htm this site got my date of conception exact and i was on a short cycle ...i kno it was right due to only havin sex once that month

based on the fact of a normal cycle u would of ov on 3rd may so it would be the 30th x

 

[Becyboo__x]

my cycle is 25 days sorry i forgot to add that

and im having a boy lol not a girl but i spose that doesnt matter i dont know
but i know no1 can tell me like 100% or even be sure but to me it would of been the 30th april aswell.

Thanks surprisebaby and serina27 :]
x

 

[surprisebaby]

ok for a cycle of 25 days. 24th april would be day 6 and 30 april would be day 12.

if you have a 25 day cycle you probably ovulated on day 12 (well day 12 1/2!!), because ovulation is half way through cycle, meaning it would make sense that your having a boy cos had sex on ovulation day.

 

[Jkelmum]

Based on site above you ov 2nd may so still 30ths april would be the dad ...i cant see it being the 24th as that would be too soon x

 

[24/7]

I'd say 30th April too. xx

 

[bloodbinds]

Also from this infromation I would guess you were having a girl because it would be two days before ovulating. Hope that helps

How would what day you concieved matter to whats sex baby your having? There is equal change of having a boy or girl no matter what day you ovulate or have sex.

 

[purpledahlia]

I think she means because female sperm live longer, so if you concieved as late as poss then there could be more of a chance its female sperm as they live longer, male sperm are stronger and faster but they die quicker. who knows tho, nobody ever will to these things really, my dates actually dont make much sense to me, the last time i slept with the fob was the 20th march.. but apparently i concieved on the 24th or so!? i duno! confusing!

 

[Lexi's Mummy]

i agree with the others hunni, it looks very much like it was the 30th xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

thanx hun
just puts my head staight alot more even if its not like definate it just takes alot of weight off my shoulders for now
xx

 

[babybaillie]

Hiya ur dates r soooo close to mine lol lmp 18th april and i no for a fact that it was the 24th april i became pregnant. and my cycle lasts 24-26 days. Hope this helps xxx