Hey my lovlies
Ok, I need to rant/ramble cos I feel real crazy right now and I feel like a complete nutjob!
Basically, after deciding to ttc.. OH and I have both had a re-think on it and think it's best we wait a little longer, as we want to go travelling etc.
This is fine by me as it's probably best that we do wait. However, I feel all weird inside, I feel extremely excited about being pregnant.. except that I'm not?
I just feel weird about this whole thing. I'm scared cos I drove myself so nutty when I wanted a baby sooo badly and it got me very depressed. I don't want to go down that road again until I know it's the perfect time to start ttc. But I feel like I'm starting to get those urges of really wanting to be again.. and it drove OH absolutely crazy, aswell as myself.
I really don't know what to do. I feel down because I'd love a beautiful little human-being growing inside of me..
I ovulate in 5days.. the temptation to not use condoms is huge, but I can't do that because it's a joint decision.. and I know it would probably be better to wait. I've even gone to the extremes of hoping the condom splits or something..
I know that in the end, when I do eventually become pregnant, the wait will all be worthwile. But it's getting me down and I don't know how to control my feelings over it. Am I crazy? I really feel like I am.
I don't know, this doesn't make any sense. It's in a bit of a jumble in my head and I don't know how to explain how I feel or anything.
I guess I just needed to get this off my chest by posting it here, I'm sorry if I've confused any of you guys by this.
Ok, I need to rant/ramble cos I feel real crazy right now and I feel like a complete nutjob!
Basically, after deciding to ttc.. OH and I have both had a re-think on it and think it's best we wait a little longer, as we want to go travelling etc.
This is fine by me as it's probably best that we do wait. However, I feel all weird inside, I feel extremely excited about being pregnant.. except that I'm not?
I just feel weird about this whole thing. I'm scared cos I drove myself so nutty when I wanted a baby sooo badly and it got me very depressed. I don't want to go down that road again until I know it's the perfect time to start ttc. But I feel like I'm starting to get those urges of really wanting to be again.. and it drove OH absolutely crazy, aswell as myself.
I really don't know what to do. I feel down because I'd love a beautiful little human-being growing inside of me..
I ovulate in 5days.. the temptation to not use condoms is huge, but I can't do that because it's a joint decision.. and I know it would probably be better to wait. I've even gone to the extremes of hoping the condom splits or something..
I know that in the end, when I do eventually become pregnant, the wait will all be worthwile. But it's getting me down and I don't know how to control my feelings over it. Am I crazy? I really feel like I am.
I don't know, this doesn't make any sense. It's in a bit of a jumble in my head and I don't know how to explain how I feel or anything.
I guess I just needed to get this off my chest by posting it here, I'm sorry if I've confused any of you guys by this.