PeanutBean
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Oh and no I don't think compulsary hormonal or invasive treatment is appropriate either. We've no right.
I also have an adopted sister who's birth mom was a crack head, and therefore she was born addicted. She had seizures as a newborn for month, and has terrible nightmares where she screams. She is now 4. She had to be pulled from preschool because they have never dealt with someone who is so withdrawn and cannot connect socially to anyone.
Yes I would like this woman to stop reproducing.
After your two examples BB I again am drawn to the idea of it being all well and good. i suppose there is a difference though between someone who's not had any kids and someone who has had 13!!!!
But I again have to wonder why:
Could someone explain to me why they're paying women to be sterilised when they could pay them to have the implant that lasts for 3 years?
Sterilising means thats it FOR LIFE and in essence we're saying we have no hope for these people. I have a good friend (a psychiatric nurse) who works with prisoners addicted to drugs and she says it's the minority by far who come off and stay off drugs (admittedly she deals with younger guys) but the reality is some do and I know one of them, a lovely LOVELY guy. He really wants to fall in love etc. and he used to be a heroine addict and tells me of the horrible time he was injecting crack and heroine (I think it's called snowballing) into his groin because he didn't have any "good" veins left in his body. But he's not touched the stuff for YEARS and I doubt her ever will again. It's not nice to think that we give up on people and assume they'll never get better and that's exactly the message sterilising is sending out.
Although could we trust women addicts to come back after three years to renew their implant?
It's so complicated.
Although having said that, the woman with 13 kids. I'd personally volunteer to do whatever needs injecting or cutting or tying up to make sure she never reproduces again. I don't think there's a moral conundrum on that one for me.
Oh and no I don't think compulsary hormonal or invasive treatment is appropriate either. We've no right.
Having the ability to have children IS a right. If it wasn't..who is to say who is "allowed" to have children and who is not? Should we sterilise all the poor because they cannot provide for their children? Should we sterilise anyone with a mental disorder because they have "bad genetics"? Where do you draw the line? And who gets to draw it? The rich, elite, those in power? Do you really want those people deciding who gets to have children and who does not?
OMG! I can't begin with how much I disagree! This is pure and simple eugenics. £200 would be better donated to a real addiction charity to support users to come off. I am horrified this could be taking place in the UK.
There's a programme, I think in Hong Kong though it was yonks ago I heard about it now so I might remember wrong, but thus programme is about paying the lower echelons of society not to have children and encouraging those with degrees to have them. Sorry I forget all the details. The principal is the same, people are left out by society and the reward is that they are sterilised. It's only a short step away Hunt though who thinks only the rich should have children...
I completely agree. This is pure eugenics and it's scary..
Having the ability to have children IS a right. If it wasn't..who is to say who is "allowed" to have children and who is not? Should we sterilise all the poor because they cannot provide for their children? Should we sterilise anyone with a mental disorder because they have "bad genetics"? Where do you draw the line? And who gets to draw it? The rich, elite, those in power? Do you really want those people deciding who gets to have children and who does not?
These people are in this position because society has failed them. The investment should be made in education, family support, health etc to prevent the occurrence in the first place. The right to have children is untouchable.
These people are in this position because society has failed them. The investment should be made in education, family support, health etc to prevent the occurrence in the first place. The right to have children is untouchable.
These people are in this position because society has failed them. The investment should be made in education, family support, health etc to prevent the occurrence in the first place. The right to have children is untouchable.
These people are in this position because society has failed them. The investment should be made in education, family support, health etc to prevent the occurrence in the first place. The right to have children is untouchable.