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Dry nursing?

Charmed86

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Id love some thoughts on this!

My milk never came in. I was producing some good amounts of colostrum, but my actual milk never seemed to ever go beyond a few drops. That's still the case now, although even that seems to be dwindling. I think it's because of a hormonal imbalance (I have pcos), but it could have been because of the infection or anaemia following the birth too.

Anyway, I got in touch with a lactation consultant to see whether it would be possible to do any BF. We did try in the beginning, for 4 days.. But DS got so unwell form jaundice that he just would not wake up to feed. He was so lethargic. We ended up in hospital overnight, force feeding him formula. I didn't want to try to exclusively BF again because I couldn't stand seeing him like that.. But maybe a combination?

Well, the LC was pretty judgemental about my low supply, claiming it was lack of time at the breast that will have caused it (when DS was born, he spent up to 1 1/2 hours on the breast, every hour! There was no way that was the issue. The poor guy would scream all night, I'm pretty sure because he was starving.

She eventually suggested dry nursing for comfort rather than for food. There's a part of me that finds it a little bit weird, but I gave it a go this afternoon. DS had been fed, changed, winded, the lot & he would not settle. He kept grabbing at my breast (he's now 5 1/2 weeks & not been BF since day 4). I let him have it & he sucked maybe 5 times & then settled immediately into a deep sleep! I wonder if he missed that comfort and bonding? He's FF now & has a dummy for comfort. I've read that sucking on the breast can release certain hormones that encourage sleep, which would explain why he's now jonked out in his crib! Something I've not managed to get him to do in WEEKS!

Has anyone heard of this or even tried it? I'd love to know what other people think! My DH thinks it's a sweet idea! I thought he'd find it odd. Lol
 
I've heard of this, although usually for different reasons but I don't find it weird at all and if it brings him comfort and you don't mind then why not. TBH good sleep is hard enough to come by regardless so do whatever is needed.
 
I think it's a lovely idea! My LO comfort sucked all the time without me having a letdown so essentially the same thing. If it makes your life easier then why not? :)
 
I haven't heard of it with babies, but I've heard of it with toddlers when the mother is pregnant. I dry-nursed Violet when I was pregnant. I think you should go for it.
 
I got pregnant with DS when DD was a year old so did quite a bit of dry nursing. I'm pregnant again now so expect it wont be long before I'm doing it again. I think a lot of breastfeeding babies enjoy comfort sucking even when the breast is pretty much empty, or they can suck in a way that they dont get much milk on purpose. It might well encourage some milk to come in if your baby is interested enough to keep it up. My milk didnt come in propperly until about day 4 so it might be that yours would have done if you didnt end up having problems with jaundice.
 
I comfort nurse my 1 year old. I produce plenty of milk but I can tell when he is actually drinking milk and when he is just sucking for comfort. If it makes your baby happy and you are comfortable with it, why not?
 
Mine dry nurses throughout the day all the time now. At first I was worried I'd lost my supply as nothing seemed to be happening, but actually she's obviously just figured out how to do it without getting milk, as if I do happen to have a let down, she will say no and stop lol. But when she does want the milk, like just now (I think she had a nightmare), she will happily take what she wants.

I don't mind her dry nursing at all - if that's what she fancies for the most part during the day, then it's fine with me, even if it's sometimes just thirty seconds at a time!

Go for it - you can still have a fulfilling breastfeeding experience this way and you might even find you start to produce something again, and can work on building on that by pumping and using galactogogues, etc. It has been done! Adoptive mothers have actually been able to produce milk for their babies without ever having given birth, which seems totally impossible to me, but apparently it can happen!
 
I got pregnant when ds1 was only 6 months and dried up around him turning 9.5-10 months and he's been dry nursing ever since. He doesn't sleep any other way, and I don't mind it either. It makes him happy and I love the closeness and bonding we have with it.
 
My 5 week old is dry nursed. She's FF as my milk didn't come in either.

I love nursing though and she settles really fast, can't get her to take to a dummy so I pop her on me when she's upset and she calms down.

It's lovely to bond that way too.
 
I am working on comfort nursing Eddie. He is 6 weeks tomorrow. My milk never really came in, though I'm working with LC's on increasing my supply so he's getting *something* from me. Comfort nursing has benefits for both of you, and if your baby will do it, go for it!!
 
I didn't read all the replies so I'm sorry if this was already suggested but how about a supplemental nursing system? You can nurse baby and formula feed at the same time. Get the bonding/comfort from bf'ing and baby will get nutrition.
https://www.breastfeeding-problems.com/supplemental-nursing-system.html
 
I didn't read all the replies so I'm sorry if this was already suggested but how about a supplemental nursing system? You can nurse baby and formula feed at the same time. Get the bonding/comfort from bf'ing and baby will get nutrition.
https://www.breastfeeding-problems.com/supplemental-nursing-system.html

Ooo, yeah, that's an excellent idea!
 
I've never heard of it but it makes sense to me... If you don't mind it I don't see any harm in it
 

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