DTD - Anyone else?

[brunettebimbo]

Sorry for the TMI question!

Everytime Hubby and I DTD the day after I have a big blob of what looks like EWCM. Anyone else?

It's putting me off DTD because I'm terrified!

 

[Spiffynoodles]

Yep, I get that every time, although it's usually several globs throughout the day. When you're pregnant, everything is more swollen "down there" which means it usually takes a little longer for all of his 'goods" to make it back out because they get trapped up in there. Perfectly normal.

 

[Leliana]

Yeah. I thought that was EWCM at first too. Then I realised it is semen!! Not the loveliest thought but very normal

 

[Nanninoo]

Yeah same here usually lasts throughout the day after dtd

 

[brunettebimbo]

Thanks girls.

We DTD last night and haven't felt very pregnant today then that started so I've been a nervous wreck! I've used my doppler 3 times today just to reassure myself!

 

[OhMJH]

I envy you all! 22 weeks and I physically can't with OH..the Braxton hicks I get after any form of bedroom activity is agony and because she's head down in my pelvis already, 'it' doesn't even fit due to space being taken up and OH being on the large side of things. I'm climbing the bloody walls!

 

[Laylagirl]

I envy you all! 22 weeks and I physically can't with OH..the Braxton hicks I get after any form of bedroom activity is agony and because she's head down in my pelvis already, 'it' doesn't even fit due to space being taken up and OH being on the large side of things. I'm climbing the bloody walls!

Im actually trying to get as much as I can! Im 22 weeks today and want to keep going till my tummy is too big!! Lol i get a little stomach cramp sometimes but I think thats from trying to suck it in so as not to look like my tummy is big!! Lol

 

[Spiffynoodles]

Im actually trying to get as much as I can! Im 22 weeks today and want to keep going till my tummy is too big!! Lol i get a little stomach cramp sometimes but I think thats from trying to suck it in so as not to look like my tummy is big!! Lol

Just so you know, you don't necessarily have to stop. DH and I were able to DTD all the way up until the day I went into labor with both of my kids so far. You just might have to get a little creative with positioning.

 

[Jess19]

Oh how I envy you girls getting to dtd! My dh has been refusing to dtd because of my cramping after, esp if it goes all the way to the big O!
I even brought it up at my last drs appointment, dh happened to be with me because we had our gender scan right before seeing the dr. I asked dr to tell dh that it was ok for me to have an orgasm lol due to dh refusing to have sex because he didnt want to put me into labor. My dr then proceeded to explain that semen contain prostaglandins that make the uterus contract, and that my uterus is contracting during the big O and that both could be a bad combo (possibly) so he told dh to be good but not that good
Lol thanks doc!

 

[Carlyp1990]

Yea I think it's just semen hun xx

 

[Unexpected212]

I got this and it put me off DTD even though everything I read said it was normal and fine. It freaked me out cos I thought it might be my mucus plug!

As others have said it's apparently normal.

 

[junbait]

DTD... whats that! I haven't been intimate with DH that way since... forever! DH freaked out after a spotting early during first tri and then we started noticing that BH contractions almost as early as 12 weeks (uterus goes as hard as a ball). To say the least that freaked him out even more than spotting. So at 25 weeks, we do other stuff, but no DTD.

 

[brunettebimbo]

I think that's the way we are headed. I know he can't hurt baby (even though he is pretty large ) but I can't help but worry afterwards!

 

[Lilbean2]

I feel like dtd all the time , but the one day a week we finally do.. omg do I burn and sting after, I can't sleep!