due 4th jan. need a friend

[elixir]

hi. i lost my baby in nov a MMC. now BFP 2 days back, due date coming out for 4th jan, im scared out of my mind. need a friend to share with.im terrified

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Me me me!!!
I had a mmc in October. First bfp since and I'm sooooo scared, can't really process it. I'm sorry for your loss but its nice to have someone who has been through the same thing.
I'm due 1st jan but ovulated on cd17 so think it will get changed to 3rd jan xxx

 

[elixir]

hiiii! OMG its a relief to hv someone to ven with/ im soooo terified. i cant even be happy for fear of jinxing it. first pregnancy was a breeze, 2nd time lost in nov a day after our 7th anv.scared of going to bathroom n finding blood.every twitch n cramp has me running scared.havn shared with anyone n dont plan till we cross 12 weeks. most scary is the thought of the first scan and finding a hearbeat or not.

 

[JohnsonGirl]

I'm the same. This is my first baby and last time I was really sick for 12 weeks then told at my scan baby didn't develop past 8 weeks but my body didn't register it. So now I m more nervous coz last time I had so many symptoms and it still went wrong!
Hope I'm gonna chill out after a few weeks!!
I'm scared of going to the bathroom too lol think its gonna take some time to get used too.
My fingers are crossed so tightly for us!!

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Hey elixir how are you today?
I'm a bit tired and nauseous. Had to take another test today just to see the lines!!! Much darker now so feeling a bit better!!

 

[elixir]

hi, im doin ok symptom wise, slight queasiness and sore nipples are all i have rt now. otherwise im trying to stay positive. once i cross the dreaded 12 week mark, ill breathe better. its good to have someone who is in the same boat, literally.hope ur doin better. lets hope we cross 12 weeks calm n easy together

 

[elixir]

also the same happened with me, went for a scan at 10 weeks n was old baby stopped growing at 8 weeks.

 

[JohnsonGirl]

I'm gonna try and get a scan at 8 weeks- even if I have to pay for it. Can't last till 12 weeks!!!

 

[elixir]

likewise i plan to get one done at 8 weeks. but even then ill breathe easy once first tri is over. lets try to stay positive and enjoy it,vr pregnant yayyyy

 

[JohnsonGirl]

I know, I keep suddenly being sooooo happy then super scared again!
I'm determined to enjoy it. I can't control what happens so just gonna be healthy and take it as it goes!

 

[jem77]

Can I join you ladies? Just got my BFP! Edd is Jan 13th! I am also terrified! Not sure I'll be able to relax at all and enjoy this. 1st preg was great! Second was great too, until I lost the baby. Hopefully we can help each other through this scary, but happy time!
H&H 9 months to all!

 

[elixir]

hi jem, sure it wd be great to be on his ride together. scary time rt now, just wanna cross 12 weeks asap

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Hi jem, you're very welcome.
How are u girls today? I'm glad to have the day off and relax a bit. Symptoms not as strong today- paranoia is gonna be my best friend till 12 weeks!!

 

[elixir]

actually i hv no sympoms till now and im really worried! y isnt here any MS KICKING IN??

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Last time I didn't get any ms till week 7- don't know what's happening this time. It's definitely worse with stress, so maybe you're nice and chilled out.
I've had lots if cramps and aches but everyone keeps telling me its normal but I'm just sooooooo worried its all gonna go wrong again!

 

[oyinkan]

Hi ladies,would love to join you on this thread my EDD is Jan 5 would b so hapi to talk to you ladies cos this is my 4th preg after 3 m/c.........so don't mind sharing things wit u ladie

 

[elixir]

hi ayinkan, sure it wd be great to hv u. thats y i started the thread. really scared and needed somebody due around the same time and who has been hru the same thing, so hat we cd share the journey bucking each other up. dont worry hun, we r all scared. n wishing for lots of sticky baby dust our way!hugs

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Hey ladies how is everyone? Im ok, a little sick but really hungry! Boobs killing!
Worry of the day: lots of cm- feel wet down there and keep having to check I'm not bleeding!!!

 

[elixir]

i know johnson girl, i kep disappearing into the loo to check for bleeding! boobs little sore and lttle bit of nausea kicking in yayyy. but i keep having these stretchy kinda pains on and off. johnsongirl, i keep thinking tom i wd be 6 weeks, urs wd be today i guess, and i keep wondering if the babys heart is beating well! it shd by 6 weeks, in my first pregnancy, i was called at 6 weeks and there she was measuring to date and strong little heart flicker. second time for MMC. at 6 weeks there was a sac and a yolk sac. no fetal pole till one week later. i wish i cd get a scan tom to see. at he same time im scared and want to wait till the 8th wek, because if there is no heartbeat tom. they wd call me back in a weeks time and the wait wd kill me

 

[oyinkan]

Hi ladies,a bit tired,feeling nauseated n seriously hungry......