early days are worrying

[tinytoes]

I never expected to feel so scared once I got pregnant. I thought that once I was pregnant I might relax, but it's constant fear that I might loose it...these first three months will no doubt seem very long.
I dont live near my family and intend on telling them the happy news at about week 10 or 11 when I next see them. I hope that wont be too soon.

I ocasionally am getting little stabbing pains. every time i turn over in bed when I've been asleep I get a little stich. Just for s plit second. I'm assuming this is normal? No doubt my belly is busy doing stuff it's never done before... but they make me panic none the less.
I can't wait for the morning sickness to really kick in - as MAD as that may sound - because at least then I'll have symptoms to tell me I am still pregnant!! These early days (I'm week 4.5) is very worrying...

 

[suzan]

OMG i know what you mean and you are not the only one thinking this way.

This is my second pregnancy and its crazy. My first one ended up in a miscarriage at 9weeks and knew about it when the morning sickness ended and my boobs shrank and then we couldnt find a heartbeat anymore.

NOw, I am a bit more relaxed I think but still scared bec i dont wana pass thru what i passed before. It es crazy and u feel as if u enter a new world right? a world called "pregnancy" or whatever but seriously u feel out of our world now ha?

I cant wait for morning sickness to come! i will have a party! and i hope it sticks always and hope my boobs hurt me all the time as well, at least, like u said, u feel more relaxed knowing u r preggo.

|Good luck to us hunny!!

 

[tinytoes]

yes good luck to us!!!!!!! I'm only ever going to move slowly and eat good stuff...hehehe

 

[cheryl]

It is worrying all you can do is take it easy and don't overdo things. If i remember right all those little pains are normal, I had them with my 2 children. It is just everything stretching and making room for baby.
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[suzan]

True. THe pains are normal. I just dont understand how some ladies say "i never felt pregnant or I dont feel anything"

Well, I do!! and worries me yes! but i swear, i dont think about it, i consider it normal and all. I have been told that any kind of twingies, or cramp is normal as long as it doesnt last long and isnt tolerable and u dont see blood.

 

[Mango]

All of your pains sound normal hun, more than likely it's your ligaments stretching which is quite painful at times. Hope it eases down soon for you!

 

[Serene123]

Well I've just made it to 12 wks with pains and bleeding so, be optimistic!

 

[Samantha675]

It is totally scary. Even now that I am past the magic 12 weeks I am still worried about losing the baby.

 

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[Nathan619]

I never expected to feel so scared once I got pregnant. I thought that once I was pregnant I might relax, but it's constant fear that I might loose it...these first three months will no doubt seem very long.
I dont live near my family and intend on telling them the happy news at about week 10 or 11 when I next see them. I hope that wont be too soon.

I ocasionally am getting little stabbing pains. every time i turn over in bed when I've been asleep I get a little stich. Just for s plit second. I'm assuming this is normal? No doubt my belly is busy doing stuff it's never done before... but they make me panic none the less.
I can't wait for the morning sickness to really kick in - as MAD as that may sound - because at least then I'll have symptoms to tell me I am still pregnant!! These early days (I'm week 4.5) is very worrying...

Congrats and best of luck!! All will be fine!

 

[UptonGirl]

hi guys - i know what you mean about the early days - im 5-6 weeks pregnant - they arent sure which just yet! one doc said 5w 5 d and one said 6w 4 days so have to wait till my second scan next week.
i never thought i would worry once i was pregnat - i was always so worried about getting pregnant and then bang - its here and im absolutely petrified. yesterday i started bleeding and all last nigth and this am went throuhg hell with my husband.we are newly weds, conceived on wedding night.im 25 and we were on top of the world when i found out i was pregnant and then yesterday thought i might have miscarried - your worls falls apart. anyway went for a scan today - hospital full of girls and couples who have all had bleeding and pains - really horribloe atmosphere and the unit is in the maternity part of hospital so not the best location!!!!! anyway had my scan and so far so good - everything is normal - they saw a sac, embryo and hearbeat.its 2.6mm so flippin tiny but deffinitely there-i saw the heartbeat.it was like watching someone elses life in a movie or something - doesnt seem real. i know i will just panick now until the birth and then probably for the rest of my life. all we can do is take one day at a time, be positive and try and relax and we all know at the end of the day there is baby and bump to support us - thankyou b&b!!!!!! goodluck everyone! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Luxx]

Im really worried too!

 

[mountainmama]

I know what you mean, it really isn't my style to concern myself with things beyond my control but somehow my brain keeps telling me that it's as likely as not that I will have complications.

I've been all good so far but it really eats at me too.

 

[Jenny]

Yup its a constant worry, I don't relax until I feel the baby moving lol and even then I get worried sometimes. The stitchs your getting sound normal, just stretching and such.
Its great having this kind of support here,you can at least list your fear no matter how weird it might sound to you but the girls here really put you at ease. You ladies are the best

 

[PitBullMommy]

I understand completely. I'm constantly worried that something will go wrong and after finally (had infertility issues) getting pregnant I'll lose it or something. I can't wait to finally feel it move...maybe I'll calm down some then!

 

[Margerle]

Yep, about every four days I have another bout of "stretching pain". The ole uterus hasn't had to work like this for 11 years! This baby is stretching the ole girl out