Early miscarriage, and passing fetal tissue. Burial?

Mearly12

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So today at 7 weeks I miscarried, and passed a perfect little bean. It was right there on the tissue when I wiped. I can't bear to flush it down the toilet or throw it away like trash, but at the same time idk what go do with it.

what did you do with your little bean?
 
Hi first of all I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had 3 mcs. The 2nd one was 2nd trimester and we have ashes but the 1st and 3rd we planted in a pot with plants that flower around the time of the edd. I find it peaceful to look at them. Xx
 
I passed a little tiny baby with a tail and you could see where the eyes were and everything. I stared at it forever and had no clue what to do with it. It was on the pad I had on. And I stupidly just threw it away bc I panicked and didn't know what to do with it. I thought about burying it than I thought how weird having a kid buried in your yard. So I just threw it away. I wish I would've followed my first instinct though bc than I could sit with my baby in a yard with flowers or at least just not have the thought that I just threw my baby away. It was a bad time and I wasn't thinking straight. I hope whatever you choose you can be at peace. :hugs:
 

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