My first baby my FIL did my epidural and it was amazing!!! I was immediately numb when he finished and I didn't feel a thing and never had to top off the medicine. My second I did it without and it was pretty painful, but not really that bad. Had an epidural with my 3rd done by a different dr and it was awful. I had to have 2 doses and then sit and wait 15 minutes for the numbing to kick in. I was fully dilated before I was numb and had the baby and felt everything.
I complained to my FIL about the epidural and he said some hospitals do a mini spinal (what he does) and others do epidurals that take time to kick in. So this baby I'm planning on going the no epidural route because of how horrible my last experience was. If I could have the mini spinal though, I'd do it again in a heart beat!
That makes sense!! I think my friend who just had her baby had the spinal....I think I had the other one your FIL was talking about lol!!
When the dr put in the medicine and told me he'd be back in 10 minutes to make sure I was numb I started crying!! I expected it to be immediate and it was awful. He came back in and I still wasn't numb so I had to have a second dose of the medicine, which made me incredibly nauseous so I started puking, and then I was fully dilated before he even came back in to check on me again...
The only problem I had the first time around was pain in my urethra for probably about 6 months PP. I'm assuming from the catheter
Oh man...those catheters....I honestly don't even remember if I had one...but I guess I would have, right? Everything was such a blur after so many hours without medication lol!!
Sounds like you had a tough epidural experience, yikes!!