loeylo
1DD, 1 pup, WTT#2
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Ugh, people annoy me.
We have decided to keep our 2 year old rear facing as long as possible, so purchased two seats which can rear face until 4 (or beyond, as will be the case with our tiny kid) - one with isofix for our car, and one without as a "spare" which is used in three cars - my parents, the in-laws and my sister. It's very occasionally used in taxis and other family members cars, but only when we are there to fit it.
It's literally the easiest seat to fit - the joie tilt if you are familiar - so no need to brace it or add tethers or anything. I've shown everyone how to fit it many times; plus she has been using it for over a year and uses all three cars at least once a week. Everyone knows how to work it.
My mum and dad always use it properly, no questions asked. Sometimes the belt isn't quite as snug as I'd like, but they follow all the rules like no puffy jackets and stuff. No issues.
Today I caught my sister putting on a puffer jacket and then strapping her in without tightening it enough (the straps were sitting on her upper arms) so I pointed this out to her and fixed it. She then went into a rant about how all her friends think it's cruel I still rear face her, they even looked my car seat up online, downloaded the manual, weighed my daughter, and (incorrectly) told my sister that my dd had to ff now since she's over 9kg. Actually, it says she CAN forward face from 9kg but can stay rf until (I think) 18kg. Also, apparently padded jackets are fine and it's cruel to have her not in a jacket in winter (she has car blankets)
Fortunately after explaining internal decapitation to my sister and showing her videos of the padded jacket thing she is on board now, but wtf? To her friends who have their own kids and are being judgey about me wanting to keep her safe.
Also, I suspect MIL and FIL have ff her as FIL made a conversation about turning round and seeing her smile or something, there's no way they can see her face when rf. I questioned them about it and they denied it, so I've just avoided them have her in the car since. They also continually make comments about her being "cold" even though she's literally never cold and takes her jacket off almost every time she wears one.
Is it really THAT unusual to ERF a tiny two year old?
We have decided to keep our 2 year old rear facing as long as possible, so purchased two seats which can rear face until 4 (or beyond, as will be the case with our tiny kid) - one with isofix for our car, and one without as a "spare" which is used in three cars - my parents, the in-laws and my sister. It's very occasionally used in taxis and other family members cars, but only when we are there to fit it.
It's literally the easiest seat to fit - the joie tilt if you are familiar - so no need to brace it or add tethers or anything. I've shown everyone how to fit it many times; plus she has been using it for over a year and uses all three cars at least once a week. Everyone knows how to work it.
My mum and dad always use it properly, no questions asked. Sometimes the belt isn't quite as snug as I'd like, but they follow all the rules like no puffy jackets and stuff. No issues.
Today I caught my sister putting on a puffer jacket and then strapping her in without tightening it enough (the straps were sitting on her upper arms) so I pointed this out to her and fixed it. She then went into a rant about how all her friends think it's cruel I still rear face her, they even looked my car seat up online, downloaded the manual, weighed my daughter, and (incorrectly) told my sister that my dd had to ff now since she's over 9kg. Actually, it says she CAN forward face from 9kg but can stay rf until (I think) 18kg. Also, apparently padded jackets are fine and it's cruel to have her not in a jacket in winter (she has car blankets)
Fortunately after explaining internal decapitation to my sister and showing her videos of the padded jacket thing she is on board now, but wtf? To her friends who have their own kids and are being judgey about me wanting to keep her safe.
Also, I suspect MIL and FIL have ff her as FIL made a conversation about turning round and seeing her smile or something, there's no way they can see her face when rf. I questioned them about it and they denied it, so I've just avoided them have her in the car since. They also continually make comments about her being "cold" even though she's literally never cold and takes her jacket off almost every time she wears one.
Is it really THAT unusual to ERF a tiny two year old?