Evil Vampire!

[Ginger_Bee]

So, we went to our first appt yesterday, and I saw my baby bean Junio (June) for the first time! Strong HB, everything looked well. I never got to see any of Baby Nessa's US(s) even though we had two (one ER scan at 5 weeks, and Dr. scanned and revealed MMC @ 8 weeks/10weeks).

ANYWAY! Needless to say, I was OVER THE MOON! I cried, and my DH finally felt connected! It was wonderful.

I go downstairs to get regular bloodwork and this is what happened:

The girl(vampire) asked me if I was pregnant, and I said yes. She asked me if it was my only child, and I said no, I miscarried (Nessa) my other baby last year. To which she replies: Oh, yeah? That happens to a lot of women though. Just be glad it wasn't a stillborn, THOSE women go through hell! I AGREED, and added that miscarriage was the worst experience of my life, and I hope to never go through anything like that again! I told her that losing one's baby/child is something I wished NO ONE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH at all.

Everything up to this point is a little out of line, but I can still forgive (she may-be had a stillbirth, etc?)

THEN she says:

"You know, many women who miscarry do so because they don't take care of themselves properly." [Then looks at me pointedly.]

I was so baffled that all I could say was, "It's pretty much the only time I take care of myself 100%."

She smirked, and took my blood away. Evil vampire [profanity!]

 

[Blue eyes 81]

What an a**hole!
I am so sorry you were treated so poorly!
I would tell your doctor or her supervisor about her lack of respect and out right rudeness.
Oh I am so angry for you that I am shaking. Ugh some people should never enter the medical field.

 

[Ginger_Bee]

I can't help but shake the feeling that SHE may have had a stillbirth, or someone close to her had. I mean. . . where else would that sort of anger (directed at me) have come from? Y'know? It made me SO angry at first, and now a few days later I just feel kind of sad for her when I think on the situation. Sigh, alas. I hope she finds her happiness one day.

You're sweet for taking the time to read my rant, Blue Eyes! I really appreciate it. I never even told my DH about it. Thanks for understanding!

 

[ThinkPositiv]

wow, that was so inappropriate!

i went to ER due to a bleed and the intake nurse told me 2 MC's were nothing, him and his wife had 5 before getting it tested and figuring out the problem! and went on to tell me i should get genetic testing to figure out what is wrong with me! THANKS! so i have 3 to go! excellent you Jack***!

some people - you wonder how they make it though life