ex wants to change aynjels surname,

[sezzlebum]

not a chance chick, like everyone else said, youve done all the hardwork.

 

[janie]

No you stick with your name. My longterm partner left me a month ago and i am having the baby in my name now and thats the way it will stay. x

 

[sleepinbeauty]

no way in hell. If it were so important to him, he should have been there. No way.

 

[Pyrrhic]

Ok, who bumped the old thread?

 

[Sandie_Cali]

I would say, HELLA FRICKEN NO WAY!!! No way would that happen, after just one visit and some clothing??? Heck No!!!

He would have to prove himself over and over and over and over again, to start with child support for a year and half the doctor bills or anything you had to pay for while he was on his sabaticle (JERK).

I hate with a passion that there are men out there who drop the women they supposedly loved and then come back after the baby is born or years later to take credit for something they had nothing to do with but DONATE SPERM. What a JERK!!!

Before you make your decision to change, which I hope you will not, remember the loneliness you felt, remember the embarrasement, remember the times you had to carry your own groceries, and much more remember being dumped as a nothing while you carried and cared for this child who was dumpled as well.

I am sorry but I 100% disagree with changing the babies name and after all this time, I am surprised you would even want him to be in your life again, he does not deserve you nor the baby.

I would say, out the door, dont let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!

 

[Aria]

Sounds like he was just asking if that's the plan. If he becomes regularly involved in her life, it might not be a bad idea to hyphenate his name so she has both of your last names, but only if he becomes regularly involved.

 

[Sarah88]

Bugger him. As if you would change your daughters surname to his after all that shit? Why is it such a big thing to guys anyway?

 

[PrettyBonk]

no he just came to finally meet her coz i wanted to give him the chance to be in her life it will probably be end of jan when he nxt sees her,
he did buy her lots of nice new clothes which i think was nice of him.

hun... so what if he bought her nice things?????
Of course he did...he would have look even more horrible if he didn't...don't fall for that please.

Don't change her name...at least not now...wait a couple of years and only if he becomes the babies dad...not a visitor.
But I wouldnt change it even if he was actively a daddy.

 

[passengerrach]

no way would i change the sir name my baby boy has my sir name even though i live with and am very much in love with his dad

 

[Sandie_Cali]

Bugger him. As if you would change your daughters surname to his after all that shit? Why is it such a big thing to guys anyway?

Hi Sara,

I am with you 100% Men like that think of thier children only as trophies.

 

[missbump]

mine is having my surname! unless the father decides he actually is interested in the unborn kid.

 

[mz_jackie86]

I would tell him to jog on hun! No way should u change it bcos he all of a sudden wants it to be changed! How cheeky of him to even suggest it!!!

 

[avabear73]

I would tell him that's the name she's been given and only she can change it ... when she's 16 she can change it of her own free will so if he's still in contact then he can ask her himself.

I've heard a lot of cheeky requests ... but that takes the biscuit LOL.