So for the last 8 years I have been depressed. I find it odd because at the time when I was younger I thought that things couldn't possibly feel worse than they do now but boy was I wrong!
It's hard to explain. I'm sure other people who are depressed can relate. I'm not someone who wants to take my own life, but I feel that I am just another fish in the pond and I am probably taking up resources that someone more useful than me could have had.
I feel NOTHING. It's like.. I feel sad because I no longer have any emotions. Never truly happy or excited. But just very very empty. I can't sleep because I have too many thoughts in my head but if I occupy myself then the thoughts take over and I can't focus anyway. Most days I wish I could be some mindless drone who walk through life without the hassle. Without feeling worthless.. Like looking out through my eyes but not being in control of my body. Hard to explain.
There are so many reasons why I feel like I do. It's hard to put it all in word or just to think about it because each problem branches into another one. But I'll put that what's giving me the most grief at the moment..
I have always been very independent. Worked since I was 13, moved out when I was 15 and since then never received any support of any kind from my parents. I am a VERY hard worker. I put everything into what I do and it has affected my health before (passed out due to stress, not eating) So now at 20 I'm unemployed, living (sponging in my eyes) of my in-laws and no use for anything.
I have been actively trying to get a job for two years now. Most people don't reply, or ignore me when I call. I got a foreign last name and I find that when I call for application forms etc they are all so nice to talk to and are more than happy that I am applying but as soon as I mention my name they immediately loose interest. It's disgusting. I managed to get a job after 9 months but was dismissed after having two weeks off in the first two months of employment due to my appendix bursting. It wasn't allowed but I couldn't do anything about it. Big company versus me wouldn't work out in my favour probably. I'm stuck in this pit where even applying to jobs that require no previous experience or qualifications, I can't even manage to get interviews or a reply. There is just no way out of it for me.
I wonder if maybe I should try to get some anti-depressants. Don't know how they work or what they make you feel but anything is better than this I feel. This job situation where me, a highly independent person can't provide for myself is very discouraging. My fiancee is in the same position as me (although not depressed, he obviously don't feel bad for living with his parents) but yea, don't know.
This is too long, sorry. I don't know what to do.
It's hard to explain. I'm sure other people who are depressed can relate. I'm not someone who wants to take my own life, but I feel that I am just another fish in the pond and I am probably taking up resources that someone more useful than me could have had.
I feel NOTHING. It's like.. I feel sad because I no longer have any emotions. Never truly happy or excited. But just very very empty. I can't sleep because I have too many thoughts in my head but if I occupy myself then the thoughts take over and I can't focus anyway. Most days I wish I could be some mindless drone who walk through life without the hassle. Without feeling worthless.. Like looking out through my eyes but not being in control of my body. Hard to explain.
There are so many reasons why I feel like I do. It's hard to put it all in word or just to think about it because each problem branches into another one. But I'll put that what's giving me the most grief at the moment..
I have always been very independent. Worked since I was 13, moved out when I was 15 and since then never received any support of any kind from my parents. I am a VERY hard worker. I put everything into what I do and it has affected my health before (passed out due to stress, not eating) So now at 20 I'm unemployed, living (sponging in my eyes) of my in-laws and no use for anything.
I have been actively trying to get a job for two years now. Most people don't reply, or ignore me when I call. I got a foreign last name and I find that when I call for application forms etc they are all so nice to talk to and are more than happy that I am applying but as soon as I mention my name they immediately loose interest. It's disgusting. I managed to get a job after 9 months but was dismissed after having two weeks off in the first two months of employment due to my appendix bursting. It wasn't allowed but I couldn't do anything about it. Big company versus me wouldn't work out in my favour probably. I'm stuck in this pit where even applying to jobs that require no previous experience or qualifications, I can't even manage to get interviews or a reply. There is just no way out of it for me.
I wonder if maybe I should try to get some anti-depressants. Don't know how they work or what they make you feel but anything is better than this I feel. This job situation where me, a highly independent person can't provide for myself is very discouraging. My fiancee is in the same position as me (although not depressed, he obviously don't feel bad for living with his parents) but yea, don't know.
This is too long, sorry. I don't know what to do.