Fathers Day

[Redfraggle]

Anyone else feeling really crap that their DH isn't celebrating Father's Day today. Again. Can't stop thinking of it, keep wanting to cry. He should be celebrating. I feel awful, been to see both dads this morning and all the neices and nephews were round. He is sooo good with them, he would be an amazing Daddy.

 

[chefamy1122]

Its weird that you posted that b/c I was JUST thinking the same thing. I hope that all us LTTC girls can make that dream come true one day.

 

[BizyBee]

I was also thinking the same thing when I woke up this morning. I usually try to be optimistic, but I don't feel like it today. Can't wait for it to be over!

 

[obe]

Well my oh had two lovely fathers day cards today, but it just made me feel even worse! I dont have any children of my own, we have been ttc for over a year and now just waiting to see a fs. But it did break my heart a little that hes lucky enough to get a fathers day card, but now from our child. I hope next year will be different.

 

[sparkle83]

I hate father's day. Worse than the anniversaries of my losses, or the dates my three babies should have been born. Worse than mother's day. Worse than each year's anniversary of the day we started trying.

Today is the day I am reminded, more than any other, that I have not given him what every married man expects, the joy of fatherhood. I know I shouldn't feel like I've failed, for yet another year, but I do.

Roll on tomorrow.

 

[BizyBee]

It's so awful! I'd been avoiding the card section, but caved so I could buy one for my dad. Of course, I burst into tears when I saw the husband ones. He's going to be such a great dad some day...

 

[MrsR32]

I felt the same way, felt even worse when I saw my best friend's husband's facebook status which said he "was enjoying his first fathers' day" - I know my DH is going to see that and be disappointed that it's not him (we started TTC within a month or so of each other and they now have a gorgeous baby girl.

 

[aflight84]

I felt so bad yesterday I bought DH a card for father to be and wrote it from roo (my angel baby) saying that one day he'll be the bestest daddy but if anything it just made it worse cos we both want it so bad!

 

[rachelle1975]

Oh hun i'm sorry you had a bad day

Be smiley and positive about how wondering the future father's days will be. There are so many negatives that sometimes its really good to focus on the positives. I didn't think about not being pregnant at all yesterday - just had a good day with my pops and was thankful that i still have him. Hopefully next year i'll have pops and i'll have a bump but if not, i'll get there on the bump front

 

[aflight84]

we all will! We deserve to be proud parents and to enjoy mum and dad's day!