fear of FOB

[rjb]

Ask your mum about the RO then? Or go to the police and ask? I doubt they can just turn you away since this is about you after all.
And if you parent's aren't willing to give you a new number why not contact your service provider and have the number blocked from contacting you.

we did that for a couple of his numbers, but he keeps getting new phones, so it's just really inconvenient.

 

[OnErth&InHvn]

I dont want to step on any toes, but why arent your parents taking this more seriously? I know my parents would of threw his butt to the curb if he tried to contact me.

 

[rjb]

I dont want to step on any toes, but why arent your parents taking this more seriously? I know my parents would of threw his butt to the curb if he tried to contact me.

i'm not really sure..
i mean. they hate him.
so i dont really know why they aren't jumping on this oppurtunity..
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[rubixcyoob.]

What about talking to your sister? Tell her you don't want to go back to your parent's because you're scared, ask her to talk to your parent's etc.

 

[rjb]

What about talking to your sister? Tell her you don't want to go back to your parent's because you're scared, ask her to talk to your parent's etc.

well, it's actually my sister's house i'm scraed of going to.
i stay ther all week, and my window is on ground.
he knows which one is mine and everything,
cause that's how the baby cam to be.

and i've told my sister how scared i am, and yet she's reall insensitive about it.
she says things like "well you had no problem sneaking through it before."
and things of that nature.
it really hurts my feelings, and doesn't help me feel any safer.

 

[rubixcyoob.]

Well maybe get another relative to talk to who will be more serious about it? I can't believe your family don't seem to give a shit.

 

[rjb]

Well maybe get another relative to talk to who will be more serious about it? I can't believe your family don't seem to give a shit.

my family is weird.. we've always been kind of..
"i don't see it, it's not happening"
like maybe if they just ignore things they'll go away.
it's just how they cope :\
its not so bad with my parents.
but it really upsets me when my brother and sister do it.
but no one else in my family knows yet (another product of the pretending it's not happening)
so idk who to go to really

 

[OnErth&InHvn]

a counselor at school? A friend? a friends parent? This is your baby and you need to stand up for this baby!

 

[amygwen]

no joke.. you're bringing a baby into this world and if you're that petrified of your FOB then you would try and do something about it. there are a lot of psychos in this world and you never know what type of guy he may be when your LO arrives. hopefully not a bad one, but you need to be best prepared. go to the police.

 

[amygwen]

Well maybe get another relative to talk to who will be more serious about it? I can't believe your family don't seem to give a shit.

my family is weird.. we've always been kind of..
"i don't see it, it's not happening"
like maybe if they just ignore things they'll go away.
it's just how they cope :\
its not so bad with my parents.
but it really upsets me when my brother and sister do it.
but no one else in my family knows yet (another product of the pretending it's not happening)
so idk who to go to really

go to your doctor if you really don't know anyone else to go to. your ob/gyn or mw is the best person to talk to about all the emotional things going on in your life and one of the questions i always got asked at my dr's appt & when i was about to give birth is 'are you afraid that someone will hurt you or your baby?' if your parents aren't going to anything to help their child and their grandchild then you need to tell someone else.

 

[rjb]

no joke.. you're bringing a baby into this world and if you're that petrified of your FOB then you would try and do something about it. there are a lot of psychos in this world and you never know what type of guy he may be when your LO arrives. hopefully not a bad one, but you need to be best prepared. go to the police.

it isn't as is i'm not trying..... :/
we got a restraining order.
but that doesn't make me less scared because he says things like it won't stop him.

 

[amygwen]

no joke.. you're bringing a baby into this world and if you're that petrified of your FOB then you would try and do something about it. there are a lot of psychos in this world and you never know what type of guy he may be when your LO arrives. hopefully not a bad one, but you need to be best prepared. go to the police.

it isn't as is i'm not trying..... :/
we got a restraining order.
but that doesn't make me less scared because he says things like it won't stop him.

how old is he?

 

[OnErth&InHvn]

no joke.. you're bringing a baby into this world and if you're that petrified of your FOB then you would try and do something about it. there are a lot of psychos in this world and you never know what type of guy he may be when your LO arrives. hopefully not a bad one, but you need to be best prepared. go to the police.

it isn't as is i'm not trying..... :/
we got a restraining order.
but that doesn't make me less scared because he says things like it won't stop him.

that is him still trying to control you. You need to look within yourself anf release yourself from him. He CANT control you. he cant have control OVER you. Im not talking physical.

 

[rjb]

no joke.. you're bringing a baby into this world and if you're that petrified of your FOB then you would try and do something about it. there are a lot of psychos in this world and you never know what type of guy he may be when your LO arrives. hopefully not a bad one, but you need to be best prepared. go to the police.

it isn't as is i'm not trying..... :/
we got a restraining order.
but that doesn't make me less scared because he says things like it won't stop him.

how old is he?

coming up on 17.