Hi ladies!
Been gone a while (just got back from visiting family in the U.S.) and have been catching up.
Pernae- I'm with you! At 20 weeks had a low-lying posterior placenta. Have another scan in 2 weeks to check the progress, and I'm hoping with everything I have in me that the placenta has moved (and that baby is head down or gets that way before birth!). I had a EMCS with my first and desperately want a VBAC this time. As long as the placenta and LO cooperate, I should at least be good for trying naturally. I think I will literally cry for days--or weeks--if I have to get a planned c-section.
And since I haven't had a recent scan I don't know what percentile this LO is, but my DS was also in the 90th+ percentile in the 3rd trim and EVERYONE told me how huge he was going to be (estimated by birth at 10+ lbs). When he was born he was a perfectly normal 8lbs 2oz, so I'm taking all estimations on this LO with a little grain of salt.
And re: splitting the baby duties. My mom is coming to stay with us for 5 weeks starting around my due date, so she will be here to help with our DS and new baby where needed. DH and I will be sharing a room (don't have anywhere else for either of us to go anyway, especially with my mom staying in the spare room) but with our DS, DH slept through all night wakings/feedings no matter how much noise we made (he'd wake up in the morning and ask, "did he STTN?" and I'd be like, "no, I was out 5 times!" men!) so not worried about DH being too bothered. Depending on how tired I am I'll probably get out more often if our DS is woken up by the baby but DH will definitely be expected to help on his days off. I'm planning to EBF but had a low supply with our DS so combi-fed from when DS was 3 / 4 weeks old. So if I can EBF this one I'll do all feedings, if we have to combi-feed DH and I will take turns (or I'll do all bf and he all bottle-feeds). Gotta see how it plays out though. Keeping my fx'd there are no bf'ing problems like last time though.
I had a baby shower while I was in the U.S. and am now fully stocked on pink items

We have more clothes than I think we'll ever use. Definitely covered for the first 6 months!