whittnie117
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Hi ladies! Loving all of the scans!! I haven't had one since 7 weeks and I'm 11 weeks on Monday so I'm so ready to see little baby again!
I see my Doctor Monday, yay just for a check in and we will hear the baby's heartbeat with a Doppler also but I think I have to tell her I have to change Doctors because we moved, we bought a house about 40 minutes away. It works for now to see her still because I work by her by I think for delivery I might want to be closer I like her so much though!
I also have a scan on July 24th and then another on July 27th but that one is for Down syndrome screening. Husband thinks the screening is a good idea so we could prepare if Baby were to have Down syndrome.
Can I just vent for a second? I don't know about all of you but I'm a worrier and I'm just getting so down with worries for baby. I don't know how to put it behind me. All of the time I'm worried. Someone said I'll be worried for the rest of my life and to find a way to deal. But I don't know how. It's so stressful. How do you guys do it? ;(
With my first, I worried all the time. Things kept on happening that caused worry. I bled heavy, on sonogram his chest showed too big, I had to be monitored twice weekly, etc...I always just felt there was something wrong and I should worry. Well, fears and worries were unneeded. My son was perfect. It's hard to stop worrying when there are so many fears and expectations. I have no advice really on how to contain the worry. I couldn't until the end when suddenly I felt fine and that he was perfect in there. That wasn't until week 33 or so. All I can say is that if your 12 week scan goes great, just try to relax. Easier said that done, I'm know.
This time around I feel fine in the pregnancy. I may have every symptom in the book, but I feel great about this pregnancy. No real worries. Which is weird because, like you, I am a worrier too. I am also impatient, so while I am impatient for things to happen, like my first appointment and ultrasound, I still feel fine about this pregnancy.
I guess every pregnancy is different, but I'd try to just focus on all the positives in your life rather than the possible negatives that are super highly unlikely anyway.