Fed up :(

[CharlieKeys]

So I know I'm not at my due date yet, but I am completely fed up I'm sick and tired of these false starts. I get contraction pains that are really strong i.e. this morning for example, and it had me in tears. It was like it for a couple of hours and took some paracetamol and they've just dulled down/disappeared. Starting to think that I won't even recognise when I go into labour, because these pains are SO like my contractions I had with the boys.

Phoned OH and told him what was going on and he said to keep him updated. He then said to phone his mum (she's watching the boys), and I said 'no can we wait and see what happens first, let me take these painkillers' ... so what did he do, get off the phone nad call his mum. She now keeps texting and calling me asking what's going on ......... DO YOU NOT THINK YOU WOULD HAVE HAD A PHONE CALL?! LEAVE ME ALONE! Then got a message off my OH saying, how he can't keep crying wolf and MIL phoned and left a message saying she had to go to work, she couldn't wait around forever. So ... OH got a nice message saying I wasn't actually going ti phone him until I end up in hospital and to tell his mum to piss off, I'll ask MY mum to travel 2 hours to watch the kids.

 

[Fish&Chips]

Oh hun That's incredibly inconsiderate of both your oh and MIL for giving you a guilt trip. Does he not want to know what's going on until you are absolutely sure which as you say may only be when you're almost ready to push?!

False starts really are crappy but at least your body will be well prepared when the time finally comes.

x

 

[miss cakes]

that kind of pressure from your OH and MIL is soo not helpful! think u need to have a word with him not to call her unless you have asked him to bet you wanna strangle him! xx

 

[elle1981]

Oh honey thats crap!! Clearly your MIL has forgotten what its like to feel like at the end of your pregnancy...when all you want is bubba to make an appearance and these contractions etc arent helping at all giving you hope then being highly inconsiderate and buggering off...in fact they seem to be following in the footsteps of oh and mil! Haha!

Bubba will come and by the sounds of it, it wont be to much longer either!
Keep your chin up honey

x

 

[booflebump]

Urgh - yes, because it's clearly all your fault that you keep having these false starts....like you have any bloody control over them Stupid man - if you asked him not to say anything, then he shouldn't have said anything!!

 

[CharlieKeys]

I feel silly because now when it is it .... I won't think it is and just won't call anyone He's phoned me now nad said that he only called his mum to check on me. Which I guess is sweet and he had good intentions, but when you specifically say 'can we wait to see what happens?' and he still goes and calls her and she then won't leave me alone it's irritating!! I've had so many what feels like it pains in the last week it's just silly now

Just want it over with now - my boys are starting to suffer because I'm so miserable and in pain constantly (pelvis and walking pain), and all the midwife can say is 'not long'. That doesn't help lol!