feel like im never going to get over it

[Al4321]

The baby at the moment is still inside me. I just feel like Ill never get over this, I have too many unanswered questions, mainly the same why, being why? why? why? how could this happen? why did the heart just stop when it looked so perfectly grown? I dont understand it at all.

Some people have said to me "you can try again love" I cant even think of trying again at the moment, and besides, that seems like years away to get in this place again, we were almost into second trimester.

Im so paranoid about this happening again, thinking there must be something wrong with my body for this to have happened.

Ah I dont know

 

[orange-sox]

I know how hard it must be for you to have any hope at all at the moment, but some many women go on to have healthy babies after losing one... it is unfortunatly nature, as sad as that it

Why? is the question I ask myself the most, and I guess we will never know why, not fully... but please find some strength from all of us here to support you along the way, we're always here for you

 

[borntobeamum]

OH sweety.....

Why - well that is the question of all questions, im sure all us ladies have asked that a million times, but sadly no one can give us the answers we want and need.

As for getting over it, im not sure we ever do, its been almost 5 weeks for me, and I cant say its getting better, but its getting easier.

The unfortunate thing is most of the time its not known why it happens.

I hope that things work out for you moving forward.

Laure
xx

 

[todteach]

Sending you

We're all here to listen.

 

[catfromaus]

This is a great place to go when you are feeling crappy. It won't help you with your why questions, but it does help you feel that you are not alone. It does get easier. And it gets harder too. I've found that life is a bit of a rollercoaster ride atm!
Thinking of you, and so sorry for your loss

Cat
xxx

 

[Fluxuspoem]

Just want to give you a big hug