helen1234
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i've been with my oh 7 years, and suddenly out of the blue he wants more freedom to go out party as and when he chooses. and when i disagreed as we're a family i have a 13 yr old from previous relationship, and we have a baby due in january, we bought a house 18 mths ago and needs alot of work doing so we can't afford for him to be off when he feels like it.
things got really ugly on saturday when he bogged off to wedding without me, and in my hormonal state i turned up at the nite do, which was a maquee i pulled up well skidded up to the marquee in my little beetle (nearly got stuck in mud) and i told him exactly what i thought of him and that i was leaving him, luckily he was stood out side the marquee, but i would have walked in it i was sooo livid.
anyway we came home and it got ugly and he got vilent towards me punched the wall started smashing things up then as i was sat on the sofa he walked past me and booted my leg really hard, his mummy and daddy came round took him to hosp. ahhh poor boy NOT.
i went to my mums she lives 100 miles away in derbyshire, she wants me to leave him and move back, and i just want to go now too i'm shattered i cant cry anymore.
but i got a mortgage i'm gonna lose my job and everything,
i know i have to go he's so controling over me and has been in jail for violence and he's hit me before.
how am i going to pay for baby stuff wit no job and will i get housed if i have a mortgage.
but my biggest concern is rosie she overheard us and started saying please don't make me move house. breaks my heart.
anyone else been in this situation i feel really scared
Helen x
things got really ugly on saturday when he bogged off to wedding without me, and in my hormonal state i turned up at the nite do, which was a maquee i pulled up well skidded up to the marquee in my little beetle (nearly got stuck in mud) and i told him exactly what i thought of him and that i was leaving him, luckily he was stood out side the marquee, but i would have walked in it i was sooo livid.
anyway we came home and it got ugly and he got vilent towards me punched the wall started smashing things up then as i was sat on the sofa he walked past me and booted my leg really hard, his mummy and daddy came round took him to hosp. ahhh poor boy NOT.
i went to my mums she lives 100 miles away in derbyshire, she wants me to leave him and move back, and i just want to go now too i'm shattered i cant cry anymore.
but i got a mortgage i'm gonna lose my job and everything,
i know i have to go he's so controling over me and has been in jail for violence and he's hit me before.
how am i going to pay for baby stuff wit no job and will i get housed if i have a mortgage.
but my biggest concern is rosie she overheard us and started saying please don't make me move house. breaks my heart.
anyone else been in this situation i feel really scared
Helen x