krissie1234uk
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Just wanted to get something off my chest and ask if I've been mean. My sister is a single mum of 3 lovely kids who are all at school (youngest in his first year). She doesn't work and has been trying to get herself into college and get some qualifications so she can get herself back on her feet really.
The problem is, she is struggling finding a course that is during the day and doesn't interfere with school times. The only courses she can find are at nights which is where the problem lies. She just phoned me up to ask if I could babysit next week while she goes to an introduction meeting thing, which I have no problem doing. The kids are fine and well behaved. It's just that she then asked if I could do the same every week from 5.30-9.30pm. My EDD is in just over 2 weeks! Is it unreasonable that I said no? This is my first baby, my partner works until 6pm so I would have to take LO with me when he is born and I don't know how I would cope looking after a newborn and a 4, 6 and 13 yr old at the same time! Not to mention trying to get into a routine and recover from giving birth.
She wasn't mad or anything, she completely understood but she said she had to ask... I just feel bad now. I want her to do well and get some qualifications but I have to look after my new family first don't I??
The problem is, she is struggling finding a course that is during the day and doesn't interfere with school times. The only courses she can find are at nights which is where the problem lies. She just phoned me up to ask if I could babysit next week while she goes to an introduction meeting thing, which I have no problem doing. The kids are fine and well behaved. It's just that she then asked if I could do the same every week from 5.30-9.30pm. My EDD is in just over 2 weeks! Is it unreasonable that I said no? This is my first baby, my partner works until 6pm so I would have to take LO with me when he is born and I don't know how I would cope looking after a newborn and a 4, 6 and 13 yr old at the same time! Not to mention trying to get into a routine and recover from giving birth.
She wasn't mad or anything, she completely understood but she said she had to ask... I just feel bad now. I want her to do well and get some qualifications but I have to look after my new family first don't I??