Feel So Alone & Scared

[LucyS]

After 8 months have found out about OH sleeping with his nextdoor neighbour.

He has even sworn on our unborn babies life he never.

I caught him coming out of her house even when I was pregnant he says it only happened once before I was pregnant and not with him but I know it happened that day when I was preg too.

I can never forgive but I just feel so alone and scared! Only have 6 weeks left and loved him so much.

 

[moomin_troll]

First off it takes guts to stand up and say im worth more than this and to leave! I no how it feels to be cheated on and its heart breaking. And even tho it was years ago and i left him it still hurts when i think about it that someone i loved so much did that to me but now i just realise that i was too good for him and now even he says it.

Even tho he has cheated and you have left him (which is great) will he still be there for baby?

My mum was a single mum from the age of 25 with 3 kids my dad was vilolent and cheated and she had enough and wanted more for us and she did a great job and i love and respect her so much more for doing it alone.

Try not to stress about it i no thats hard to do but u will find the person that deserves u

 

[brownhairedmom]

Men are scum. For real. You are much better off without him. You deserve someone who is going to be there for you and your LO

 

[LucyS]

He is but I am bitter as he didn't care about baby when sleeping around!

 

[moomin_troll]

He is but I am bitter as he didn't care about baby when sleeping around!

its hard but the longer u stay bitter about him cheating the more its just hurting u in the long run. u feeling angery and bitter isnt going to effect the sl*g he went with or make him die a very painful death.

i stayed bitter for along time and it took me to a very bad place so just focus on ur baby and when the time comes ule no what u want to do.

u can give the rat one chance to prove he will be there or hes out!

 

[brownhairedmom]

He is but I am bitter as he didn't care about baby when sleeping around!

its hard but the longer u stay bitter about him cheating the more its just hurting u in the long run. u feeling angery and bitter isnt going to effect the sl*g he went with or make him die a very painful death.

i stayed bitter for along time and it took me to a very bad place so just focus on ur baby and when the time comes ule no what u want to do.

u can give the rat one chance to prove he will be there or hes out!

This is completely true. The longer you stay bitter the worse it will be. I was so bitter for months and my life was truly miserable. I finally let it go and now I'm happy and feel that I can be a mom to my baby in the way I should be.

I know it hurts but you need to let it go for yourself. I should be the last person preaching about this, because 4 months ago I never thought I was ever going to be happy again. But I am, and you will be too.

 

[Younglutonmum]

Omg what a twat!! Sometimes I think I shouldn't look in this section - I get so pissed off reading about these waste of spaces!!!

As Rae said the longer you stay bitter the worse. I really ruined the early part of my pregnancy as I was so bitter towards my ex. I still despise him but i'm so happy with my life now.

Honestly in time you'll be smiling again. Surround yourself with friends & family & you'll pull through



xxx

 

[LucyS]

I have been bitter for months and dont think I have had one true day of happiness in this pregnancy and I feel awful for the fact.

Not sure I can even cope with LO now as it will be too much of a reminder of him. It hurts so much more it was when I was pregnant.

Seriously this girl has controlled our lives for months, I always knew soemthing happened but he denied it he even swore on babies life without me even asking him too!

He admits doing it when he wasn't with me but still denies that it happened when I caught him coming out her house one day with texts on his phone from earlier in the day with him saying 'come round mine later if u want' then he had been with me and she had text 'where have u gone ur mum and dad are back' and he thinks Im thich and I dont know what happens when parents are out!

I just still love him so much I will never ever have the same connection with anyone else-yes I may find someoen else and learn to love them but I'm broken forever.

 

[~ Vicky ~]

He's a dick. You and your LO are better off without him.

My baby's Daddy cheated on me too, and denied it when I asked him outright. It was only when I reeled off this other girls name, where she worked and so on that he cracked and admitted it. Then he chose her over me and our baby.

I was really cut up about it at the time, we were engaged and in full throes of planning our wedding (which would've happened in 2 weeks time) but time really is a great healer. I now realise my baby is better off without him in her life and so am I.

I'm thankful to say i've moved on and have been dating someone else for a little while and i'm happy.

You will be too. Be strong