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louloubelle76
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I got back with the dad after my 20 week scan back in October, we had split up week before i found out I was pregnant and he admitted that he didnt believe me that I was pg thats why he didnt bother to contact me, but he did when i contacted him about 20 week scan and we was having a girl.
Was so happy to be back with him and have him around was making plans for him to move to my area etc so was looking forward to the future. Until he wouldnt accept me on facebook, where when we was together before we was friends and in a relationship but this time round he said he hardly goes on there much but his friends number went up so i assumed he was still logging on and lying to me.
So I set up a fake account, someone with the same interest as him before I was going to add him, I added a few of his friends so he knew i was around, the past week he told me he wasnt well and he couldnt keep texting me all the time as he was really ill, towards the end of the week he didnt answer my calls or texts was really worried about him, I dont know what made me log on to my fake account that night but he had asked my fake account to be his friend!! and he still hadnt excepted his own gf's friend request
so accepted him on my fake account and was able to have a good old snoop about.
His relationship status was set as single, and he was openly flirting with other women on his wall, he even asked 1 of them out just a few weeks after we 1st split up, so you can imagine what i texted him and he hasnt even the bottle to explain himself to me hasnt replyed to a single text or phone call.
I feel so hurt and let down, not only has he let me down by my family too, I cant cry anymore as there is no tears left plus it isnt fair on my little girl, I told him to get rid of his facebook account and i might consider him seeing her but he hasnt, I feel so gutted for my daughter she has a dad who clearly doesnt want to know
sorry for the rant just needed to get things of my chest as all my friends keep saying is your better off without him, but in my heart i still love him and he is the father of my daughter.
Was so happy to be back with him and have him around was making plans for him to move to my area etc so was looking forward to the future. Until he wouldnt accept me on facebook, where when we was together before we was friends and in a relationship but this time round he said he hardly goes on there much but his friends number went up so i assumed he was still logging on and lying to me.
So I set up a fake account, someone with the same interest as him before I was going to add him, I added a few of his friends so he knew i was around, the past week he told me he wasnt well and he couldnt keep texting me all the time as he was really ill, towards the end of the week he didnt answer my calls or texts was really worried about him, I dont know what made me log on to my fake account that night but he had asked my fake account to be his friend!! and he still hadnt excepted his own gf's friend request
so accepted him on my fake account and was able to have a good old snoop about.His relationship status was set as single, and he was openly flirting with other women on his wall, he even asked 1 of them out just a few weeks after we 1st split up, so you can imagine what i texted him and he hasnt even the bottle to explain himself to me hasnt replyed to a single text or phone call.
I feel so hurt and let down, not only has he let me down by my family too, I cant cry anymore as there is no tears left plus it isnt fair on my little girl, I told him to get rid of his facebook account and i might consider him seeing her but he hasnt, I feel so gutted for my daughter she has a dad who clearly doesnt want to know
sorry for the rant just needed to get things of my chest as all my friends keep saying is your better off without him, but in my heart i still love him and he is the father of my daughter.
trust me ! x
he sounds like a right bell***. You'l be okay 
