feeling a bit in limbo, where do I belong?

[Longing2bAMum]

Hi ladies I'm just on the first day of my 14th cycle and feeling a little in limbo as to where I should be. It feels like everyone in the ttc pages is only just starting out on this journey, and if I have to read or make friends with another person who gets pregnant on the first month trying i'm going to go insane!! But in ltttc, a lot of ladies have been trying longer than I have, and I feel like a bit of a fraud coming in here.

My names Kirsty, i'm 30 from England but living in Sweden with my partner, we're newly engaged and getting married in late September I'm not registered properly in Sweden yet, but as soon as I am I plan on a doctor appt to make sure everything is ok, that should hopefully go through in September and we will have been ttc for a year and half then, so a good time to get checked. Maybe we'll get our bfp before then, who knows.

My period just arrived today after being 8 days late, the longest cycle i've ever had is 32 days so I was very excited that this was it, only for it to be dashed away, but it's been a weird cycle, I didn't even feel like I OV'd, so I guess my suspicions were correct and that's why AF was running late. I get over it pretty quickly these days, just a cuddle from the other half usually does the trick, we know it'll happen when it's meant to

So I hope I belong somewhere in here, I have o belong somewhere!!

 

[zanDark]

I hate welcoming new members to the LTTTC section!! I wish we'd all just get pregnant and get it over with!

Welcome hun I'm sorry about the disappointment of AF arriving 8 days late!!! It's happened to me a couple of times and it's heartbreaking to get your hopes up just to get AF!

I joined the LTTTC group after a year of trying because the TTC forums got too much for me you're more than welcome to join the LTTTC forum if you feel more comfortable here!

 

[PinkPeony]

I feel the same. Been trying a year now after NTNP for several months before that. I bob btwn both forums. I'm finding a bit hard to relate these days on the other one and it bums me out to see ppl just breeze through there onto first tri. Anyway, welcome So sorry AF got you.

 

[uwa_amanda]

There are a couple of threads in the TTC section I glance at but usually hang out here with the rest of the long timers. It sucks to be in here but the support from all of us LTTTCers is great.

 

[StephieB]

I think you belong wherever you feel comfortable

We're only on cycle 26, so still rookies compared to some of the lovely ladies on LTTTC but I have to say I have never been treated any differently due to how long we've been trying compared to other people. We're all upset to be here, and all have the same final goal in mind, so whether you've been trying 1 year, 3 years or 15 years, everyone can get some advice and support here

Hopefully you're not with us too long

 

[FutureMama1]

Hi ladies I'm just on the first day of my 14th cycle and feeling a little in limbo as to where I should be. It feels like everyone in the ttc pages is only just starting out on this journey, and if I have to read or make friends with another person who gets pregnant on the first month trying i'm going to go insane!! But in ltttc, a lot of ladies have been trying longer than I have, and I feel like a bit of a fraud coming in here.

My names Kirsty, i'm 30 from England but living in Sweden with my partner, we're newly engaged and getting married in late September I'm not registered properly in Sweden yet, but as soon as I am I plan on a doctor appt to make sure everything is ok, that should hopefully go through in September and we will have been ttc for a year and half then, so a good time to get checked. Maybe we'll get our bfp before then, who knows.

My period just arrived today after being 8 days late, the longest cycle i've ever had is 32 days so I was very excited that this was it, only for it to be dashed away, but it's been a weird cycle, I didn't even feel like I OV'd, so I guess my suspicions were correct and that's why AF was running late. I get over it pretty quickly these days, just a cuddle from the other half usually does the trick, we know it'll happen when it's meant to

So I hope I belong somewhere in here, I have o belong somewhere!!

Hi Ladies! Hope you don't mind me joining in

I have only just registered for B&B after 3 years of TTC and trawling through this website for advice and success stories! Finally decided to join in and share my experience I will be sticking to LTTTC thread's as it's good to hear from people with similar stories/frustrations, I know how annoying it is when people complain after only trying for a couple of months!

I am currently on my first month of Gonal F with TSI, really hoping this does the trick, trying not to get my hopes up too much but it is hard not to. I'm sure you know how hard the fall is when you've talked yourself into beliving your prgnant when you're not

x

 

[Armywife84]

Welcome ladies! Sorry to see you here, but you've stumbled into a WONDERFUL virtual support network for those struggling with IF.

No one else may get it (don't we get that enough on a daily basis?) but we do!

 

[claireyfairy]

I have just posted here too for the first time as just hit one year mark. I feel exactly the same about the ttc forum. Everybody there gets excited in tww and I just don't anymore. I feel like I am just counting down to the next cycle to try all over again xx

 

[wonderstars]

Welcome ladies! I hope your stay is super short but while you're here, pull up a chair, we're an entertaining bunch.

How else do we stay sane through this horrible journey?

 

[Maurie]

Sadly, Welcome ladies... Hope your stay is so very short..

Sorry AF got you... She attacked me with a vengeance yesterday.

I don't post often but I am almost always here lol

These ladies are so wonderful and comforting... I hope we all can just have a massive title wave all on the same cycle to move over to 1st tri... Is that too much to ask? Lol

 

[Longing2bAMum]

Thank you ladies for all of your kind words, I guess I knew I would be welcome here, but sometimes we all need a little reassurance I just didn't want to come straight in and step on anyone's toes. I hope my time here is short too, but it is what it is and I just have to wait it out patiently. I do feel like I ooze baby dust, so maybe it's time I spread some in here and give some new ladies an extra little chance

 

[PocoHR]

Hey and welcome! I have been trying for, gosh I think its 21 or 22 cycles now, I have lost track. I think once its been more than a year and you start to approach testing its hard to stay in the ttc section, most posters there just can't relate. I hope you will feel like you belong here, I think its so great for advice and support!