Feeling Anxious....

[Ltweety]

So I know it doesn't do any good at all, but I'm about to ovulate (signs point to tomorrow) and I just feel anxiety. Like I REALLY don't want to miss this egg! I know we can't expect to plan down to the month, but January is the one year anniversary of my first loss and I just thought it would all be settled by now. I feel so much pressure today!!! It's not helping with my prospects for bd'ing. It won't be any fun tonight if all I can think about is "you better get it right!" Anyone have some positive vibes for me?

 

[MrsMabey28]

So I know it doesn't do any good at all, but I'm about to ovulate (signs point to tomorrow) and I just feel anxiety. Like I REALLY don't want to miss this egg! I know we can't expect to plan down to the month, but January is the one year anniversary of my first loss and I just thought it would all be settled by now. I feel so much pressure today!!! It's not helping with my prospects for bd'ing. It won't be any fun tonight if all I can think about is "you better get it right!" Anyone have some positive vibes for me?

So sorry for your losses. I too cannot stop thinking about ovulation, i'm currently in my TWW and its consuming my every minute it seems! Just make sure you do something today to take your mind off it. Why not go out for dinner or for a walk and make a special evening out of it. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way!! xx

 

[TTC74]

I just suffered my loss (waiting for my first AF). I can't wait to be pregnant again, and this is only 3 weeks post-loss! I'm sure you are very stressed, but I am sending positive vibes your way that you catch that eggie this month!

 

[Ltweety]

Thanks ladies for your words of encouragement..

TTC74-did you have to be treated with methotrexate for your ectopic or was it surgical? Were you able to save the tube? i'm so terrified of having another ectopic...although I did save my tube but the methotrexate was miserable for me. I'm very sorry to hear about your most recent loss as well...9 weeks would be tough. If you want a buddy I'm here for you

Well, It looks like I ovulated yesterday according to my sudden temp spike. So that means we only bd'd once in my fertile window...unless you count the night of the 3rd, which was 3 days before I ovulated. I haven't ovulated on CD 13 since March! And I just got my positive OPK yesterday morning so same day surge and ovulation...i just hope it was enough! I was expecting to have one day prior and day of so I let DH off the hook on Tuesday because he was really tired At least I used preseed and laid there for half hour afterward so hopefully that did the trick!

 

[TTC74]

They gave me methotrexate for my ectopic. So, I saved the tube. Thank heavens.