feeling deserted :(

[daisygirl]

hey everyone

i'm feeling really down

me and FB are not together right now but not officially separated either. he went away last week abroad, and i have no idea when or if he's coming back. he's just gone and left me to it, when he said he'd always be there for me birth etc even if we're not together, and now he's just gone.

hes not the FB of my son (whose dad is quite involved in his life) but he can still be a part of my daughters life but hes just chosen to put himself first.

i dont hear from his family and he said i should contact them, its like it always me who has to make the first step or make the effort and ive had enough.

this is so not what i had planned for life, and i guess i just feel really alone right now

 

[daisygirl]

no support here either i guess

 

[xJG30]

 

[billy2mm]

sorry hun not much advise for you

i would tell him that he needs to say once and for all whether he is going to be a part of lo's life or not coz you cannot put your life on hold for him to make up his mind whether he wants to face his responsibilities or not.

 

[leeanne]

 

[shyfox1988]

, you need to tell him(if you can get in contact with him that is) that he needs to be honest and tell you one way or another wether he's going to be around to be in your lo's life or wether hes not, he cant expect you to be left in lymbo not knowing whats going on, its not fair on you and you certainly dont need the stress, you need love and support and he dont seem to understand that obviously,

if you need someone to chat to your more then welcome to privet message me anytime hun xXx