Feeling down today..

[bbyno1]

So i woke up in a really good mood..
thinking my mums friends husband was gunna come put my cotbed together,turns out he couldnt make it so gotta wait til thursday or the weekend now

my OH has been moaning and depressed all day which has made me feel this way now hes kinda happyish he expects me to jump out of my mood when hes put me in one..

1st off he was complaining about how skinny he is (he isnt that bad at all) saying he needs to go on steroids coz doing weights,eating and taking protein shakes arnt working..then started saying how i dont give him self confidence and i never have since i been with him..

i said well i got no self confidence in my body right now and he says itl change and il have my body back in a few weeks so its okay for me so i said well i cant change my face can i and he says he loves hes face,but whats the point in being good looking when he cant do anything with other girls anyway coz hes on lock down by me?like excuse me!!

now he is going on to moan that he is gunna have no wages left my the end of the month and this is not how he wants to live hes life..(all i take off him is 50pound a month)do you lot think thats too much?bearing in mind i have to live off benifits and always out buying baby stuff..cant even remember the last time i got anything for myself..he seems to think its okay coz the government always back the women and not the men..
he says he feels like giving up on life coz its just eat,sleep,work and home and he doesnt even get any money to do what he wants or buy what he wants (yeh he only works part time but thats not my fault)

i dunno he just made me feel like poo now
its like no matter what i say he doesnt feel any better..dunno what to do x

 

[Eabha'sMum]

men!!! lol.... he is probably stressed at the idea of bubba coming soon xx

 

[Youngling]

Bless ya. The pressure is probably getting to him now and he has no1 else to take it all out on. I know iv been taking my moods out on OH. The past few days iv been really moody and as its just us 2 here i take it out on him.
Give him time to cool down, maybe give him a bit of space.
*hugs*
xx

 

[RachelRae]

My OH went through that stage about a month ago, about being tiny, and drinking protein shakes. Ha, I went over there yesterday and he was lifting!

Guys just go through this crazy phase, he'll be apologizing in no time!

 

[bbyno1]

its true but its just like im going threw the same as him except im the one thats carrying the baby with all the discomfort etc but id like to think we done a good job..like we got everything we needed early and im being positive about how we are gunna cope money wise and trying to explain to him that all my life is going to be is at home with the LO,cleaning,doing meals etc and that i havnt got it any better off than him but he thinks that he has it so much worse than me ,then when i say i will go to work and he can look after her then he doesnt want that either its like erghh!!

and now his decided with my sisters bf they are both going on steroids at 200pound for 2 sessions whatever that means lol x