feeling insecure ... :/

[teenmommy15]

i feel so insecure because all of these pretty thin and beautiful girls are always talking to my OH and i just like yeah im fat and gross and never look nice i mean i love my bump and i know im kinda just being over dramatic but it still gets to mee cause im always so lazy and never look nice anymore and all these beautiful girls are always talking to him and he says nothings going on and i know theirs not it just makes me feel so insecure and crushes me :/

 

[MiSS.M0MMY2BE]

Well, Im a jealous type of person so whether I was pregnant or not I'd still feel insecure. But the best thing I can tell you is that he's with YOU so obviously he wants you. You're beautiful! He'd be crazy to think any different.

 

[kayla93]

I know how you feel. I was a jealous insecure person before I got pregnant, and it seems to have been multiplied by 100 since getting pregnant. lol. For me, just telling my boyfriend that I felt this way helped alot. He didnt know how I felt and didnt know that talking to these other girls was upsetting me so much. Maybe if you try that, it could help?

 

[teenmommy15]

i did tell me how i feel and that i feel really insecure because of the way i look and the girl he talks to and he definately did reassure me i mean it took him a WHILE and i still feel insecure he even said that he'd stop talking to his friends but i didnt want him to stop talking to his friends cause im insecure so im just in a rut right now

 

[17pregnant]

I agree with MiSS.MOMMY2BE. I feel insecure even before all these crazy preggy hormones! You just need to tell him how you feel, don't keep it built up. These feelings aren't good, but your beautiful, and these girls have nothing on you! Keep your head up

 

[teenmommy15]

I know its just hard >.< aww thanks

 

[iluvmyfamily]

Popping in from 1st tri, I hope you don't mind me posting but your thread caught my eye! I am the same way! It's so bad I have dreams DH is cheating on me It's normal hun. You're going through so many different changes right now that you're bound to become a little insecure. If you haven't told him how you feel, you really should so he can reassure you that everything is ok and nothing is going on. I'm sure it's just your hormones and your emotions. HUGS

 

[teenmommy15]

Of course its fine I know i did and he did definately reassure me that nothings going on but i dont know my hormones are just all wacky

 

[alittlefaith]

You are beautiful . Remember , he chose you . And if he was willing to stop talking to his friends that means he REALLY loves u . Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I'm sexy & I know it"

 

[teenmommy15]

Your right aw thanks i know im attractive its just ever since i got bigger I've felt so unattractive no matter how much i love my bump i still feel fat but thank god i have your guys terrific support and advice