Feeling really mixed up

[fifi-folle]

Today started as a really happy day but am now sitting crying my eyes out. We had our second scan and saw our baby measuring perfectly on my dates, positioned well in uterus and heart beating away. Was on .

Then I opened a message on Facebook from a friend telling me she's had a mmc. I feel absolutely awful. So sorry for her but it's also brought up the feelings I had when I've miscarried. She's going to feel really awful when I tell her we're pregnant, i know because I've been in that situation too often. Don't really know what to do.

 

[hb1]

all you can do is try and be sensitive - you know how she feels having been there.

I understand how you feel - my friend lost her baby due around the same time as mine at 28 weeks - we had been excitedly comparing pregnancy notes and talking about our babies and then he was gone my heart just broke for her and whenever I think of what happened it just brings me to tears - but nothing compared to what she is going through. She recently came back to work and I was so worried that my being there would make it worse for her but we have spoken and she has been so brave and is dealing ( at least outwardly ) so well.

I am sure your friend will be ok with your news - it might knock her a bit but in time I am sure she will come to terms with it. She might even catch again really soon and you will both be able to support each other through your pregnancies

hx