Feeling sorry for myself moment!

[krissi]

I usually try and stay positive as I don't think upsetting myself all the time helps but i feel I am entitle to a few moments every now and then of self-pity!

For some reason I looked in the 3rd tri section earlier and was shocked at how many people that i started my TTC journey (on BnB - i have been trying for 10 years but since June 08 with BNB) who are about to drop. I am obviously happy for them but it made it seem all the more real of how painful my journey has been.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just a selfish cow!

 

[tootsy1987]

didnt want to r'n'r, huge big huggggs hunny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[vineyard]

I had a friend who started TTC a year after I did and she's pregnant. It's hard and I don't think your feelings are strange or unwarrented.

 

[chefamy1122]

I feel the same way. I don't think you are being selfish. It is a completely natural feeling

 

[HAYS]

can i join you with feeling sorry for myself??

 

[krissi]

Of course hun, i am really in the mood for a comfort bottle of wine or two tonight but AF is due in a few days so I had best wait.

 

[Redfraggle]

Totally there with you. Think we've all had moments like these.

 

[Farie]

Hey darling

Its hard isn't it, seeing people in 3d tri who started their TTC journey after us ... or at least after we joined BandB.
I find it really difficult at times, so I tend to just stay in the journals of the girls I know.
You not selfish at all, its natural to feel down and crappy about it ... I certainly do at times!

honey, your not alone feeling like this if you can't have enjoy some chocci!

 

[miel]

feel the same ...even harder my previous BnB buddies ttc most of them already gave birth....

so so depressing !!!!

Af got me today so the first day of her i always feel even more miserable !!!!

Why can we not get the F#@%cking BFP!!!!

 

[Trying4ever]

I know how you feel. I feel as though my life is going in slow motion......been married 3 years, been actively TTC 2.5 years, not bought a house yet .........nothing feels like it has changed since we got married. Whereas my SIL has been married 9 months is 5 months preg and is buying a house this month.........her bloody life is going in fast motion...... b****.