feeling very overwhelmed !!!!!

[ourfate]

So i had my appointment with a fertility clinic today, and now im feeling very overwhelmed and no one to talk to! DH is working family are busy friends, no answer, so they are putting me on a medication that will start my AF, and on CD1 i have to call and go in for a HSG, and then make another appointment within CD1-CD4 for ultrasound, and blood work, then from CD10 until i Ov, i have to go in EVERYDAY!which includes ultrasound and blood work!. i wasnt planning to tell my boss i was TTC but now i will have too. because i will have to miss some days/hours for these appointments. and its not like i can have someone else fill in for me when im gone, im a dental assistant so i help the dentist with all the procedures he does, so without me, he has a hard time working. im nervous to talk to him about it now.

 

[om_shanti]

So i had my appointment with a fertility clinic today, and now im feeling very overwhelmed and no one to talk to! DH is working family are busy friends, no answer, so they are putting me on a medication that will start my AF, and on CD1 i have to call and go in for a HSG, and then make another appointment within CD1-CD4 for ultrasound, and blood work, then from CD10 until i Ov, i have to go in EVERYDAY!which includes ultrasound and blood work!. i wasnt planning to tell my boss i was TTC but now i will have too. because i will have to miss some days/hours for these appointments. and its not like i can have someone else fill in for me when im gone, im a dental assistant so i help the dentist with all the procedures he does, so without me, he has a hard time working. im nervous to talk to him about it now.

I don't think you have to tell your boss that you're ttc. Just tell him that you are trying to get a medical issue sorted out, and it will require you to go to the doctor every day. I might be wrong - but I think from an HR standpoint he can't ask you what it is. Even if he can, hopefully he will have the common sense to figure out that it's a personal issue and not ask!

I have been going through the same thing and my boss definitely knows something's up because I've been either coming in late or leaving early every few days to go to the doctor but he hasn't asked what it's about.

 

[aquaria6]

That is very overwhelming. It will be difficult juggling all that, but the good news is that each appointment is one step closer to your bfp. I hope your boss is understanding. Good luck.

 

[ourfate]

thanks ladies, i think i will just tell him its girls stuff lol he wont ask anymore after that haha. i hope i can work most out around my work schedule though!