Ladies I hope you dont mind me posting here as I am in such a fortunate position of being almost 18 weeks pregnant. But I too had 2 m/c, and I truly understand how you are feeling. I felt an incredible amount of sadness after my first m/c and this turned to anger and frustration after the second m/c, especially as they put me in a ward full of pregnant ladies when I was in hospital for my D+C. Unfortunately I found the attitude of many NHS staff to be - oh well, its natuaral -then they'd tell me the statistics for m/c in early pregnancy - as if it was ment to make me feel better!
I have the upmost admiration for any lady that continues ttc after a m/c, I am sorry you have had to go thru this, but you are such strong ladies and when you do have your babies they will be lucky to have such loving parents.