feels weird with him gone...........

[Mumtobe1985]

me and my OH havent been right since before we had Abigail and dnt get me wrong he was there through my 48 hour ordeal in hospital and was my total rock but things got bad again once i got back home he let me run around after him and the baby after having a c section and also being in hospital for a week doing night time feeds on my own etc....... before i came home i went through 2 nights of our little girl not going to sleep until at least 3am and waking again at 7 and staying awake again, she settled a bit when we got home but still had us up quite a bit which was expected she is a newborn.....

.....he then started not getting up on night feeds and not helping me at all so i then after 3 night of doing it myself lost my cool and ended up telling him to go back to his dads as he was no good to me we eventually put this down to hormones and sorted things out, within a day he started a random argument knowing he would get a bite..........

............he then walked out last night and got to his dads which within 4 minutes had talked him into to coming and getting all his stuff out the flat which i think was disgusting cos as a parent i thought he might have told him not to come get his stuff leave it a couple of days and see if things calmed down since he had a 17 day old baby but NO he encouraged him to completely walk away from us................

............he came for the rest of his stuff today and asked about access i have very selfishly said when he has some sort of court order in place for visiting rights he can see her, i have said he is welcome to come on xmas day and spend it with US not just her and explained that it was hard for me to watch her snuggle into him then him walk out and leave her also hard for me to watch the man i love keep walking out on us.....

........but now hes gone i feel alone and very scared i am not going to be able to cope with a newborn on my own xx

 

[Sherileigh]

Oh you poor thing. I'm sure you know that you deserve better, but I'm sure that doesn't make you feel any better at the moment. You will survive hun. Just be strong for your beautiful baby girl!

 

[gemabee]

awww hun i've been watchin ur fb statuses nd didnt want to intrude but he sounds like an arse, u don't need this nd can do much better!
big hugs xx
ps. i'm single with a newborn as well so pm me if u ever wanna chat / bitch xx

 

[Mumtobe1985]

awww hun i've been watchin ur fb statuses nd didnt want to intrude but he sounds like an arse, u don't need this nd can do much better!
big hugs xx
ps. i'm single with a newborn as well so pm me if u ever wanna chat / bitch xx

thanks i always love a bitch on lol xx

 

[hazzabeanie]

hey hun just wanted to say big hugs to u, if he walks away thats his loss, u have a gorgeous lil girlie and you will do great looking after her xxx

 

[shyfox1988]

awww huni totally know the feeling huni, my lil girls dad decided to walk away from us only a few weeks before i was due to give birth to her,

it is hard on your own, trust me i know, ive got 2 sons who are 5 years old and nearlly 3 years old and a 2 week old baby girl, but u will manage no matter how hard it gets and if u have any family and friends around u make sure u turn to them if u need a break im sure they will be more then willing to help you and support you through this,

if u ever wanna chat just privet message me xXx