Hey there,
I'm not completely in the same boat.. yet. We are waiting for our first appointment at the private specialist in two weeks after 21 cycles of no success. My goal at that appointment is to get a HSG req so I can get it done next cycle. Also hubby will be get a req to get tested at this appt too. We aren't sure if there's an issue but he is convinced it's him b/c he's a smoker (bleh!). We are hoping to do IUI soon after our tests! Best of luck with everything, hope your first IUI does the trick!! Just curious- did you try meds before IUI?