FF says I O'd - so confused!!!

[Shelley71]

So, I took my temp for the first time since the after the surgery and now all the sudden FF has me Oing TEN DAYS AGO!!

I don't think I trust this! I almost tested this morning because AF should have been here on Friday, but she's a no show. I feel NOTHING right now, and I would be 10dpo. I also temped this morning just so I could decide whether or not I should waste a test. If my temp was higher than it had been, I would have tested, but it wasn't. We BARELY BD'd during this time, but got one in two days prior to this "O".

Would you test tomorrow or not? I don't want to get my hopes up, because I had already decided I wasn't Oing, and even managed to get myself referred to an RE. I don't want to see a BFN - two were enough last Monday!

 

[Mrs. Bear]

If you Od, which I'm not convinced of based on your chart, I would say it would have been no later than 2 days after your + OPK. Sometimes I think FF just picks a date to say that you Od even if there aren't any clear cut signs in your chart. I know I've had to adjust mine before.

It stinks when you don't know and adds that much more stress to the 2WW . Glad to hear you got referred to an RE. It is a big step and I know it made me feel much more in control of ttc because I was taking action.

As far as whether to test, I guess it depends on if it will be more torture to you to test or to wait. Maybe give it another week and test if AF doesn't show? Good luck!

 

[GraceFace]

So, I took my temp for the first time since the after the surgery and now all the sudden FF has me Oing TEN DAYS AGO!!

I don't think I trust this! I almost tested this morning because AF should have been here on Friday, but she's a no show. I feel NOTHING right now, and I would be 10dpo. I also temped this morning just so I could decide whether or not I should waste a test. If my temp was higher than it had been, I would have tested, but it wasn't. We BARELY BD'd during this time, but got one in two days prior to this "O".

Would you test tomorrow or not? I don't want to get my hopes up, because I had already decided I wasn't Oing, and even managed to get myself referred to an RE. I don't want to see a BFN - two were enough last Monday!

Shelley, I'm sorry FF threw you. I think if I were you I'd just wait so I didn't have to see a neg test. Hope things are going well otherwise!

 

[Shelley71]

That's what I'm thinking. I just don't know that I trust FF on this. My temps show NOTHING like all the other Oing charts I've seen.

I won't lie, I WANT to POAS, but I do NOT want to see a BFN. I think I'll give it a few more days. It hit me today, that even though I don't think for a second that I can be pregnant, I think this might be my first time to get upset enough to cry when AF shows. I want this so bad! I know you guys understand this, thanks.

 

[Desperado167]

Hi Shelley,sorry things have messed up for you and I know exactly how u feelI also tested this morning and got a bfn.gutted again ,I don't know y I do it as I know that I am gonna get a bfn anyway,hopefully we both get our bfp soon,hang on in there Hun,we are all thinking of you,Xxxx

 

[Shelley71]

After I entered my temp today, FF took away the O. I have NO idea what to think anymore. AF is still a no show, but I don't know that I should test since there is no definite O. Seems pointless to test, but can't help wanting to.

 

[Indigo77]

When did FF have u Oing? CD 21?

 

[Shelley71]

Yeah, I think so. If it still had the O marked, I'd be 11dpo today.

 

[Indigo77]

Well, you also had EWCM around that time and got a BD in on time.
I think you should test on Wednesday with LLBean and Wooly.
I also think you should consider getting some ICs until u and the CBFM get to know each other. I use these and love them....
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B..._m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=09X28MNPKDS0FG09YK58

 

[Shelley71]

Ok, I will wait until Wednesday and test with them. It'll be a way to keep me from doing it before then - like a pact! LOL