Fiance rant!

[Becca19]

So latley my fiance has been a real asshole and last night he actually got up and got out of bed and went and slept on the couch because i wouldnt have sex with him at 3 in the morning (sorry tmi) Its really pissing me off because we have gotten in so many fights about that subject because it seems like its all he cares about. Like really hes that immature that he has to get up and leave me alone in the room because i wont do something with him because i'm trying to sleep (its been getting harder and harder for me to sleep with the heat and all the pregnancy fun) So i have been really bitchy plus other drama with other people!!

 

[Sophiiie]

Sorry to hear that you're having a hard time
I'm so bitchy lately, all the uncomfortable days & sleepless nights are really getting to me. Me & my OH haven't DTD in so long now but luckily he's quite accepting of it, sorry to hear that your fiance isn't understanding! Might be worth trying to talk to him and explain that you're just really not comfortable or feeling up to it at the moment, and remind him that it's because you're carrying his LO! x

 

[youngmum2b]

I know this sounds kinda mean but id tell him to f off or tell him that hes part of the reason you dont want it anymore i know when my oh goes on out it n i dont wont it i tell him to piss off or that he has hands lol
but some guys get really turned on by there ohs being pregnant so it might be that.

 

[stefni_x]

x

 

[bbyno1]

Aww sorry hes being like that but his gotta understand that at 3 in the morning you might not be up for it! and theres nothing wrong with just cuddling up and showing your love in other ways apart from sex..my OH has always been a bit of a sex freek and i was really worried how he was gunna handle it when i got big but he hasnt tried it much and hasnt really complained so i been quite lucky but i think your OH will get used to the idea that he can no loger get sex on demand anymore now your pregnant things changex

 

[RachelRae]

Awh, I'm sorry to hear about you having trouble,

Ha, men it's all they think about. & were just like come on let us sleep! Haha,
I don't think he should of just left you for the couch, maybe you can talk to him about it and compromise in some way?
xx

 

[Becca19]

He's always been kind of like this its super irritating because its not like we never do anything, but yeah now its just like being prego and uncomfy makes it worse plus if i do ever get mad at him for it he'll like go off and act like he has done nothing wrong and everythings my fault! He does that for a lot of things not just this. Ugh! so many people stressing me out! We have had a lot of trust issues before

 

[Tanara]

Awwh

Im like your OH in a sence, when its to hot in our house my OH doesnt like to have intercourse since he gets to hot. And i get upset lol

 

[Becca19]

haha i guess im just being whiney and bitchy so much stuff going on with my mom and my previous landlord and agh makes me super bitchy about everything!

 

[rainbows_x]

It's fine to feel bitchy about that
The last thing you want at 3 in the morning is someone pestering you for sex!
He needs to understnad he can't get it all the time, especailly when you are a tired, hormonal pregnant woman!
Try not to stress about it hun.
x

 

[Tanara]

Awh hun your not being bitchy or anything is, and if anyones being whiney its him