glbell920
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I haven't been around lately because so much has been going on. It's been 7 wks 2 days since I lost my baby boy Gavin. I've been trying to keep it together and at times other things have kept me distracted but feels like everything is trying to surface again.
I had my first cycle last week. I never get cramps with AF but this time I was in so much pain it just reminded me of how I felt when I lost Gavin. I hate reliving it because I start to wonder what if all over again. Then I had my 6 week check up Monday and they found that I have a bacteria that lives in my reproductive tract and attacks the uterine lining during pregnancy which caused me to lose my baby. It is the culprit of multiple miscarriages and can be treated with antibiotics. I wished I had known what I know now then I would have my baby. The thing that hurts most is that the signs were there and everything seems so obvious after the fact.
I can't look at pregnant bellies. I keep getting these coupons for diapers and chord blood information. Today I got an email from Enfamil reminding me that I would be 6 months by now. Then I start to think about the holidays and they look so much different then they did 6 months ago. I was so excited about the holidays because I imagined me wobbling around my family with everyone rubbing my belly. Then once the holiday season passed and the new year came in I would be at the end of my pregnancy and anxiously awaiting my baby. Now I have none of that to look forward to.
I just feel so sad right now. My husband wants to get a vasectomy and I refuse to agree to it so it's causing some tension between us. I don't even know how to process all this right now. I feel like I'm mourning Gavin, my two other angel babies, and even the potential to have my rainbow baby all at one time. I can't read the TTC after 2nd trimester loss thread because it hurts to know that I may not ever have the chance to TTC again. It's too much.
I had my first cycle last week. I never get cramps with AF but this time I was in so much pain it just reminded me of how I felt when I lost Gavin. I hate reliving it because I start to wonder what if all over again. Then I had my 6 week check up Monday and they found that I have a bacteria that lives in my reproductive tract and attacks the uterine lining during pregnancy which caused me to lose my baby. It is the culprit of multiple miscarriages and can be treated with antibiotics. I wished I had known what I know now then I would have my baby. The thing that hurts most is that the signs were there and everything seems so obvious after the fact.
I can't look at pregnant bellies. I keep getting these coupons for diapers and chord blood information. Today I got an email from Enfamil reminding me that I would be 6 months by now. Then I start to think about the holidays and they look so much different then they did 6 months ago. I was so excited about the holidays because I imagined me wobbling around my family with everyone rubbing my belly. Then once the holiday season passed and the new year came in I would be at the end of my pregnancy and anxiously awaiting my baby. Now I have none of that to look forward to.
I just feel so sad right now. My husband wants to get a vasectomy and I refuse to agree to it so it's causing some tension between us. I don't even know how to process all this right now. I feel like I'm mourning Gavin, my two other angel babies, and even the potential to have my rainbow baby all at one time. I can't read the TTC after 2nd trimester loss thread because it hurts to know that I may not ever have the chance to TTC again. It's too much.