Lottie86
Mummy to Findlay & Iona
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I'm filling in a draft of the form at the mo and it is so complicated as it seems to be set out for people with one or two things wrong with them whereas Findlay's chromosome abnormality has caused a variety of things so trying to fit everything in the boxes is a nightmare plus it is so bloomin depressing when I sit and go through it as to just how much stuff we do that I hadn't even thought about until we started looking at the form as we are so used to dealing with it now.
Does anyone have any idea how to word about the fact that Findlay has an aversion to water and as soon as even a toe is dipped he starts screaming and going mad which when he requires full body support from me in the bath as he cannot sit up makes bathing him a nightmare as I've only got 2 hands. I also wasn't sure whether to put about his seizures in the bathing section as well or not as he is just as likely to have a seizure in the bath as anywhere else.
In the bit about 'help they need in day or evening when at home or going out' bit where it says "what they do or would do if they had the help they need" would this be the place to put about the fact that Findlay would like to go out on walks to see things however as they have been unable to find a pushchair insert that will work for him (and wheelchair services won't deal with him until he is 2) he has to stay in his pram which means he can't look around as all he can see is his pram hood unless I keep stopping to take him out to show him something and then putting him back in again to push the pram a bit further.
It's the 'how many times a day' and 'how many minutes each time' bits I'm really struggling with at the moment as it can vary (and some stuff is pretty much continuous) plus I have never sat and timed everything to know how long things take
I'm really hoping that we don't get turned down for the DLA as we really need the money to help pay for equipment for him as his OT spoke to the social work OT who said they have no bath seats tiny enough for him and from what she said it sounds like they won't fund one either and the one we found that would be perfect for him that the OT agreed was what he needed is £350 which when I am not working as I am staying home to look after Findlay we just can't afford *blush*
It seems utter madness to me that they cannot go and buy or get equipment made for Findlay if he needs it as it is not his fault that the various bits of equipment he needs is all far too big.
Does anyone have any idea how to word about the fact that Findlay has an aversion to water and as soon as even a toe is dipped he starts screaming and going mad which when he requires full body support from me in the bath as he cannot sit up makes bathing him a nightmare as I've only got 2 hands. I also wasn't sure whether to put about his seizures in the bathing section as well or not as he is just as likely to have a seizure in the bath as anywhere else.
In the bit about 'help they need in day or evening when at home or going out' bit where it says "what they do or would do if they had the help they need" would this be the place to put about the fact that Findlay would like to go out on walks to see things however as they have been unable to find a pushchair insert that will work for him (and wheelchair services won't deal with him until he is 2) he has to stay in his pram which means he can't look around as all he can see is his pram hood unless I keep stopping to take him out to show him something and then putting him back in again to push the pram a bit further.
It's the 'how many times a day' and 'how many minutes each time' bits I'm really struggling with at the moment as it can vary (and some stuff is pretty much continuous) plus I have never sat and timed everything to know how long things take
I'm really hoping that we don't get turned down for the DLA as we really need the money to help pay for equipment for him as his OT spoke to the social work OT who said they have no bath seats tiny enough for him and from what she said it sounds like they won't fund one either and the one we found that would be perfect for him that the OT agreed was what he needed is £350 which when I am not working as I am staying home to look after Findlay we just can't afford *blush*
It seems utter madness to me that they cannot go and buy or get equipment made for Findlay if he needs it as it is not his fault that the various bits of equipment he needs is all far too big.