kelzyboo
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Well, my daughter has finally been diagnosed with ASD at the end of last month after a year of waiting and i've been advised to apply for Disability living allowance. The forms are so confusing, giving me a headache to be honest, it asks how often and for how many minutes she needs help each day and i'm struggling to answer! Anyone who has a child with ASD will know just how unpredictable they can be, they have good and bad days and its really hard to say in minutes.
At the moment my daughter can't settle in her own bed, i have to move her from mine every night and re-settle her in her own, but occaisionally she manages to fall asleep in her own and this is not needed so i cannot put on the forms that its every night, also sometimes it takes me an hour or more to settle her back down and sometimes it's only 10minutes, those questions are so hard to give a deffinate answer to.
Thank God i have an appointment with the carer's association to help me fill it in as i wouldn't be able to do it without help!!
Also, after spending most of the day making notes for the form and explaining in detail all the things my daughter finds difficult and will struggle with for the rest of her life, all of her agressive behaviour's and problems she has, i feel the need to say this; I love my daughter!!
I actually want to shout this from the nearest rooftop, after making a list of things she can't do i want to make a list of the great things about her, so here it is!
She's intellegent
She's beautiful
She has the most amazing sense of humour, she makes me laugh so much
She's loving and affectionate, when she wants to be
She's talented
She's creative
She's happy and smiley
She's unique and special
She has a fantastic personality, she charms everyone she meets!
She has the most beautiful sparkly eyes
She's incredibly well behaved
She is my sunshine, my rainbow, my heart and soul, my whole world!
Just needed to say all that, i feel disloyal for outlining her difficulties in the forms as she has so many attributes, so much going for her but i know its the right thing to do, she should have what shes entitled to and i know that.
Just wanted to say how amazing my little star was, thanks for listening xx
At the moment my daughter can't settle in her own bed, i have to move her from mine every night and re-settle her in her own, but occaisionally she manages to fall asleep in her own and this is not needed so i cannot put on the forms that its every night, also sometimes it takes me an hour or more to settle her back down and sometimes it's only 10minutes, those questions are so hard to give a deffinate answer to.
Thank God i have an appointment with the carer's association to help me fill it in as i wouldn't be able to do it without help!!
Also, after spending most of the day making notes for the form and explaining in detail all the things my daughter finds difficult and will struggle with for the rest of her life, all of her agressive behaviour's and problems she has, i feel the need to say this; I love my daughter!!
I actually want to shout this from the nearest rooftop, after making a list of things she can't do i want to make a list of the great things about her, so here it is!
She's intellegent
She's beautiful
She has the most amazing sense of humour, she makes me laugh so much
She's loving and affectionate, when she wants to be
She's talented
She's creative
She's happy and smiley
She's unique and special
She has a fantastic personality, she charms everyone she meets!
She has the most beautiful sparkly eyes
She's incredibly well behaved
She is my sunshine, my rainbow, my heart and soul, my whole world!
Just needed to say all that, i feel disloyal for outlining her difficulties in the forms as she has so many attributes, so much going for her but i know its the right thing to do, she should have what shes entitled to and i know that.
Just wanted to say how amazing my little star was, thanks for listening xx