happy&healthy
Ada's Mom
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I left my very emotionally abusive husband back in July. It was extreme because the good times were so good and very frequent, but the bad times were horrid and he had me doing stuff that was very unethical (but not illegal)...but he had me in his mind trap game. We were 'best friends' until September, when he realized he did not have full control in my life and his daughter's life. He was up until this point, seeing her several times a week, and we would hang out at his apartment. He had always been the best daddy. But the ass he was being, over me not answering his call right away, (I called back 15 minutes later) escaleted our 'separation.' He also decided to use his daughter as a prawn to get me to agree to either pay him money or continue 'helping' him like I had before. He wouldn't let me leave with her until I promised one or the other. I agreed to get my daughter out of there and then I promptly filed the divorce papers so I had some legal grounds in case he ever tried to do something like that again.
Well this best daddy has completely disowned his child and hasn't seen her in a month. She keeps asking for him when we are driving in the car. He called me last Saturday and wanted me to come over. I went (because I was still a fool). He wanted to know why I brought our daughter. But he played with her and had tears in his eyes because on some level he loves her; just not as much as he loves himself. Anyway, he was offering to pay me to continue to do what I was doing. And the idiot still had me under such control that I was considering it just to keep the peace. But I went home and emailed him--NO. I finally feel free of him. I don't thnk he will have anything to do with his daughter for a very long time and I am free!!!! There is hope for those under the emotional bonds of an abusive guy. Cause even though I had left him, he still had me under his power. But for whatever reason, I finally feel FREE!! Just wanted to share my story. And thanks for reading.
Well this best daddy has completely disowned his child and hasn't seen her in a month. She keeps asking for him when we are driving in the car. He called me last Saturday and wanted me to come over. I went (because I was still a fool). He wanted to know why I brought our daughter. But he played with her and had tears in his eyes because on some level he loves her; just not as much as he loves himself. Anyway, he was offering to pay me to continue to do what I was doing. And the idiot still had me under such control that I was considering it just to keep the peace. But I went home and emailed him--NO. I finally feel free of him. I don't thnk he will have anything to do with his daughter for a very long time and I am free!!!! There is hope for those under the emotional bonds of an abusive guy. Cause even though I had left him, he still had me under his power. But for whatever reason, I finally feel FREE!! Just wanted to share my story. And thanks for reading.
