Finally

[Kayley]

After 22 months the overwhelming hurt has turned to anger! I got proof that the relationship ended because he cheated on me for 2 MONTHS!!

He lied to me, to my face!! He made me believe it was my fault, I had done something wrong. When I first found out about his new gf she messaged me some awful things.

Things were tense/horrible until a few months ago when we decided it would be best to just all try to get along. I had accepted it and even started to forget about it!

Until Friday when I found out the truth! Now I feel angry, really angry - not that he cheated (although that doesn't help!) but the fact he lied about it, the fact he made me believe it was my fault - how horrible he was. The fact he used our DD to manipulate situations.

I don't love him any more - but god I want him to apologise and mean it and I want his gf to apologise too!! I am highly doubtful I will get it - they would be more concerned about how I found out.

What do I do, carry on and pretend it didn't happen? Ignore it - or do something about it?

 

[missk1989]

Difficult to say without knowing the full situation but i would want them to know that i knew so that they felt some guilt about their actions.

 

[stardust599]

I would say your peace and then move on and forget it. They are winning if you let it affect you x

 

[Rhio92]

Ignore it - They're obviously arseholes and will try to find a way to turn it round on you again. They're not worth a second of your time xx

 

[Kayley]

Well I asked him to have a discussion and he said no - I gave him the chance to apologise but he said he would never ever apologise to me.

So I told him that I wipe my hands off him, that I give up trying to make things nice and he is not to contact me again - if he needs to talk to me he can do it through his mum!

Now to finally once and for all move on. He isn't worth my time or effort any more