Unexpected212
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I really struggled with Gender Dissapointment with my son. When I was pregnant I just assumed he'd be a girl even though I had a gut feeling it was a boy.
When I found out I cried and was so dissapointed. However I came to terms with it and as soon as he was born I forgot all about my GD and never once wished that he was a girl and I still wouldn't change anything for the world.
So I love being a mummy to a boy. I think I suit boys and I love him so much it's ridiculous.
When we started trying to get pregnant we were swaying. I got pregnant in the first month and sadly lost the baby. I stopped swaying because I felt like maybe it was detrimental to maintaining a healthy pregnancy.
So I got pregnant again after 2 months with this baby. The whole time I've been completely ok with it being a boy or a girl. If it's a boy, great I know what I'm doing and it would be a lot cheaper and my son would get a brother. If it's a girl then I get my dream. One of each.
I didn't want to find out because I thought i'd cope better finding out the gender with the baby being born. However my husband really pushed it. The whole time I've been pregnant I've thought it's a boy and everyone else thinks its a boy too.
I thought I was ok with this...now I'm starting to panic. if it is a boy then thats it. I probably won't ever get my girl, and I feel like crying
I've had no GD so far this pregnancy I'm just greatful to be pregnant but now the times getting closer I'm just panicking so much
When I found out I cried and was so dissapointed. However I came to terms with it and as soon as he was born I forgot all about my GD and never once wished that he was a girl and I still wouldn't change anything for the world.
So I love being a mummy to a boy. I think I suit boys and I love him so much it's ridiculous.
When we started trying to get pregnant we were swaying. I got pregnant in the first month and sadly lost the baby. I stopped swaying because I felt like maybe it was detrimental to maintaining a healthy pregnancy.
So I got pregnant again after 2 months with this baby. The whole time I've been completely ok with it being a boy or a girl. If it's a boy, great I know what I'm doing and it would be a lot cheaper and my son would get a brother. If it's a girl then I get my dream. One of each.
I didn't want to find out because I thought i'd cope better finding out the gender with the baby being born. However my husband really pushed it. The whole time I've been pregnant I've thought it's a boy and everyone else thinks its a boy too.
I thought I was ok with this...now I'm starting to panic. if it is a boy then thats it. I probably won't ever get my girl, and I feel like crying
I've had no GD so far this pregnancy I'm just greatful to be pregnant but now the times getting closer I'm just panicking so much